Got it Posted November 28, 2013 Share Posted November 28, 2013 I did........in high school. Not as an adult. I guess I'm cold hearted because I don't care about stuff like that at all. I mean how do you even know what your anniversary is when you aren't married? Most of my relationships naturally progressed into monogamy/commitment.....it wasn't ONE day where this suddenly happened. And if it was I probably wouldn't record the date. Maybe I'm just coldhearted Yeah I don't know many who do not celebrate anniversaries married or not married. That tends to be a pretty common thing. I suck at dates so while I celebrates dates it is usually because it is more the men in my life who have prioritized it. I picked a wedding date that was an easy date to remember as I knew I would forget. I don't mean to it is just me. Link to post Share on other sites
MissBee Posted November 28, 2013 Share Posted November 28, 2013 I did........in high school. Not as an adult. I guess I'm cold hearted because I don't care about stuff like that at all. I mean how do you even know what your anniversary is when you aren't married? Most of my relationships naturally progressed into monogamy/commitment.....it wasn't ONE day where this suddenly happened. And if it was I probably wouldn't record the date. Maybe I'm just coldhearted Similarly, in the A in particular, it wasn't like an official day I can recall that the A started "for real" or something, so there wasn't a specific day to celebrate. But we did mention the anniversaries of certain milestones or how long we knew each other or first time we had a visit or something but it wasn't anything "official." But in the opposite way in my other relationships it was more obvious when we became an exclusive and official couple so it was easier to celebrate date wise. Link to post Share on other sites
threelaurels Posted November 28, 2013 Share Posted November 28, 2013 Yeah I don't know many who do not celebrate anniversaries married or not married. That tends to be a pretty common thing. I suck at dates so while I celebrates dates it is usually because it is more the men in my life who have prioritized it. I picked a wedding date that was an easy date to remember as I knew I would forget. I don't mean to it is just me. I wouldn't really say my boyfriend and I celebrate our anniversary. We acknowledge the day and will go out for dinner, but there's nothing very "special" about it. It's just another date night. I'm not a particularly sentimental person, and I don't go for big romantic gestures... so maybe I'm just weird in this respect. Most people I know do make a big deal about anniversaries. Like you, I am also terrible at dates. Unfortunately, my boyfriend is too. We ended up having to pick an arbitrary date that roughly approximates when we first became exclusive as our anniversary because neither of us could remember the exact date Link to post Share on other sites
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