Author ctxinfl Posted January 2, 2014 Author Share Posted January 2, 2014 Have not yet spoken with my wife. I have confirmed she has cheated on me with a woman at least once. Link to post Share on other sites
Mr. Lucky Posted January 2, 2014 Share Posted January 2, 2014 Have not yet spoken with my wife. I have confirmed she has cheated on me with a woman at least once. I have no idea what to do. I have to talk to her and it has to be soon. But if I talk to her she'll know I went poking around her email. If your wife has cheated on you, you have many concerns greater than violating her privacy or disclosing you snooped. Do you think this explains the sexual issues in your marriage? Were there previous indications or discussions of your wife's orientation? Mr. Lucky Link to post Share on other sites
Author ctxinfl Posted January 2, 2014 Author Share Posted January 2, 2014 Could explain that and also her distrust in men in general. This is completely out of left field. Out of every possible scenario, this is the one I never saw coming. Her family is very religious. If (when?) we divorce this will likely come out sooner or later. I can't begin to imagine what her family will think. Link to post Share on other sites
Author ctxinfl Posted January 2, 2014 Author Share Posted January 2, 2014 sigh...her relationship lasted two years. I *think* I know who it was with, though I'm not positive. Trying to find that out now. Link to post Share on other sites
Mr. Lucky Posted January 2, 2014 Share Posted January 2, 2014 Same sex or not, won't be different than any other WS. She'll deny, deflect, gaslight and blame you... Mr. Lucky Link to post Share on other sites
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