My FWB started to act weird

[deliciousD]

I'm decent looking and even I'm a quiet person, I'm very helpful and friendly. But I have problem with relationship, I enjoy dating a lot but I really don't want a committed relationship.

I don't want a bf but I need to trust people to be with them. So, I chose a friend to be my FWB. We spent time together, a lot (maybe because he is the only friend who live very near my house, and he's sort of introvert too). He's dating one or two girls now, and I don't mind it at all. I just told him that if he decided to take any of his relationship seriously, he had to tell me so we could stop our FWB arrangement. Now my FWB decided to stop seeing the girl he dated, and he asked me what he could do to make me his gf. It freaked me out, I didn't expect this thing to happen.

What should I do to encourage him to go on dating so he can enjoy our arrangement without getting too attached?

[Phantomu]

I'm decent looking and even I'm a quiet person, I'm very helpful and friendly. But I have problem with relationship, I enjoy dating a lot but I really don't want a committed relationship.

I don't want a bf but I need to trust people to be with them. So, I chose a friend to be my FWB. We spent time together, a lot (maybe because he is the only friend who live very near my house, and he's sort of introvert too). He's dating one or two girls now, and I don't mind it at all. I just told him that if he decided to take any of his relationship seriously, he had to tell me so we could stop our FWB arrangement. Now my FWB decided to stop seeing the girl he dated, and he asked me what he could do to make me his gf. It freaked me out, I didn't expect this thing to happen.

What should I do to encourage him to go on dating so he can enjoy our arrangement without getting too attached?

 

Let him know you don't want a committed relationship. You enjoy the physical perks of the relationship without the labels attachment and monogamy. If he's upset by this you are going to have to tell him that you are going to have to end the arrangement so he can move on to someone who wants a committed relationship with him and you can find someone who just wants the physical aspect such as you do. Hope that this is helpful

[jimloveslips]

stopping the "B" will straighten him out

[Shaine]

Just be friends with him without the benefit. He likes you and of course rejecting him will hurt. If you really are a friend to him, stop having sex with him so that he can move on.