TranslucentThoughts Posted December 30, 2004 Share Posted December 30, 2004 So, I'm going to this big New Years party that a guy from school is throwing on Friday. I know that my ex will definetly be there, since he's the one who told me about it in the first place. It's been so long since I've gone to a party and had some fun. I'm worried though... It's going to be hard to see him there... and I'm afraid of seeing him with someone else. I really don't want that to ruin my night... but i'm not about to just not go in case that happens. I plan on being friendly and nice to him and just having a good time with everyone. He's weird when he's drunk though... like... he'll probably be looking for someone to get on or something... I don't know. It makes me feel sick thinking about seeing that... you know? Is there anything I can do to not let it get to me if that happens? Should I avoid him? Or.... what? I don't want to miss out on having fun because of him. Link to post Share on other sites
agnf666 Posted December 30, 2004 Share Posted December 30, 2004 If this was ever a time to take someone's advice it would be now. GO TO THAT PARTY. Seeing exboyfriends are hard but you can't let them ruin your fun. You have to show him that you are gettin along just fine with out him. If you could I would take someone with you that make make you fell alittle better about it. If you don't go then he will realize that you still like him. I would go. Have a good time, if you talk keep it short. Just talk to alot of people that night. If he brings someone else that possibly just to make you jealous. Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted December 30, 2004 Share Posted December 30, 2004 I would not go to the party...find something else to do. That will pique the ex's curiosity and have him wondering where you are and with whom. And don't tell him you're not comeing either. Link to post Share on other sites
agnf666 Posted December 30, 2004 Share Posted December 30, 2004 Originally posted by alphamale I would not go to the party...find something else to do. That will pique the ex's curiosity and have him wondering where you are and with whom. And don't tell him you're not comeing either. That will really make an ex's mind wonder... Why not go... She needs to have fun and obviously she wants to go. There is another thing I forgot to ask, How long have you two been brokin up for??? That is actually a big key factor if you should go to the party or not. Link to post Share on other sites
Author TranslucentThoughts Posted December 30, 2004 Author Share Posted December 30, 2004 Well I don't think he knows whether or not im coming. He probably expects me not to go because I live further away than most people. There's really nothing else to do for New Years unless I sit home by myself. And... that's really not something I'd want to do. We've been split up for 3 months and a bit. Link to post Share on other sites
agnf666 Posted December 31, 2004 Share Posted December 31, 2004 I think you should be safe to go. That's if you really want to. It's goin to be hard. Have you guys talked since you broke up?? I would most defintely go... Link to post Share on other sites
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