Lets make 2005 a good one, we can do it!!!!

[Nick14]

I think this is the first time in a long time I am going thru a long depression in a way, wierd can vouch for me with that. I fully realized that I am not happy period. Ever since the breakup in the end of August, I have not been happy. It may seem like I went for weeks like I was happy and now I am not. When I met the new girl I was happy, and now I am not happy, not because of her, she's not part of it and has not done anything, more like a innocent bystander. I am going to have to make a deceision with her on maybe we should just hangout till I get over this rut, which looks like will be for a long time. Its been 4 months and a week ladies and gentlemen. Why the hell am I still at work, its 7pm and been here since 9am and i am off the clock. Its like I don't want to go home, don't want to drive and just want to stay in my office and cut off from the world, I guess we can all blame my ex for it. That stalking thing, really affected me and its hitting me harder now then it did last week. I am at a dilemma where I feel like I am 14 again and all depressed when my Dad almost died on the track and now he is a vegetable for the rest of his life and that took me almost about till I was 18 to get over it and accept it. My ex...sighs, I feel like she has more support in this to be the innocent one and me be the bad guy in this whole thing. Like my away message states right now(not that she can see cause she has blocked me) but heres a question to ponder " Why do people in my past have to say bad things about me when all I do is try to do good things?". Like my ex, I dunno I mean what the hell have I done to her!! I get so mad and so upset and then I get really down and out. Why can't she just say ok lets talk or hey sure we can be friends, ITS NOT THAT HARD!! It frustrates me how you can have a relationship for almost 3 years and then treat the dumpee like a stranger(even though i did press for most of the 1st month, thats another thing I ask myself, if I didn't press, would this still be a big mess). I know what you guys are going to say "you gotta move on, she doesn't care about you blah blah blah" Funny how my past ex who we weren't so serious but she was in the same dilemma as my current ex with partying and having fun and whatever. She thinks the reason why she is not replying or intiatiating things first is cause she is sick of being around guys right now and wants her freedom. Ok if that was the case, then WHY DIDN'T SHE TELL ME THIS IN THE FIRST PLACE!! INSTEAD OF TELLING ME SHE IS FALLING OUT OF LOVE WITH ME OR DRIFTING APART! I mean I have never been so angry inside when I go to the gym and add more weight to my weights before. I guess what you can say is i am really confused, not happy with my life and with how I am being treated as a guy who (in her mind)thinks I am a a**h*** for bothering her, when all i am doing is being good to her. Question is, come this feburary on our suppose aniversary of 3 years on the 14th, will she even think about me. All i am going to do is just lock my doors in my room, turn out the lights and try to hibernate for 12 hours after work. I am just really frustrated and just...sighs...man i am so wack and traumatized like no other and the funny thing is, I can't do one thing to make stupid, realize anything outside of the box, even when i am trying to be her friend!

[mj108]

Hey Nick14--Nobody can explain why our exes left us. I'm sorry you are going through pain & anger & you are feeling down. I don't understand why she won't have anything to do with you & I don't understand why she says crappy things about you. I guess it's because she is being inmature & if she's still partying like she was---that probably has a lot to do with it too. Nick, I think you're a wonderful guy & I think it's her loss. I'm sorry you're going through a depression. You ask why do people in your past say bad things about you when all you do is good? Because they are inmature & haven't grown up yet. She is inmature & partying her life away & not giving a damn about anyone else except herself. She's selfish! I'm sorry I'm venting about your ex but it just makes me mad because I know you are a great guy & she treated you the way you shouldn't had been treated! You deserve respect, loyalty, devotion & someone that is not a little child---someone that is mature! You deserve a heck of a lot better than her. I know exactly what you mean about someone just walking away after so long & treating you like a stranger. I don't understand why they do it Nick but I do know that one day they will be in our shoes & feel the pain/hurt that we feel. One day we will be happy! Don't give up hope or faith! Just know that we are all here for you...& I'm sorry you are going through what you are going through. I think you are a wonderful guy & know that I'm here if you need me.

 

BAS, I'm sorry you are going through it with your ex too! Everyone is mad at my ex because of the way he treated me. He brought back gifts that my niece (5 year old) had bought for his kids because psycho wacko girlfriend said that they couldn't have them. He brought them to his brother. His kids already opened them & were all giddy to have gifts from my niece. Psycho Wacko told the kids that they couldn't have them. They had to send them back. Well, my ex dropped them off at his bros house. Everyone is mad as he** for him doing that! I'm sorry you have to put up with an ex like that. I hate it she treated you like that. Do you need me to kickbox her ass. lol Nah, I forgot, you can do that. ha Also, good luck finding that fine looking police woman!

 

Iceisles--I'm with you! My ex isn't coming back either & I could careless. It's a new begining for me too. I think we're on the same page---my ex left me in September too. I'm not waiting around on him anymore. I'm going to start scoping at what's out there.

 

Audrey--Keep your chin up! Glad you joined!

 

Weird--Yep! Going to have to talk to you about a summer trip out your way. Get the bar ready for me & the boat. Also, you can record me kicking psycho wacko a** & his! It would be a best seller but I would have to have the 1st copy.

[Three of Swords]

Originally posted by Weird

I just would like to extend a nice group hug to all my peeps on here especially to the new posters, 3 of swords, unicorn girl and audrey.

 

Aww - I feel the love. Thanks to you all for the great words!

 

Hope to be in TO Feb 10 - too early for beer and BBQ?

 

Steve - you are absolutely right. A persons attractiveness should not be measured by their pic. Personality cannot shine in such a flat medium. And it is all about the whole package. (So does that mean if I don't get any interest when I am out I need to work on something? ).

 

I think my 2005 has already gotten better just by my finding this site!

[Weird]

doc,

 

how old is your girl? If she is my age (26...or around my age) maybe I know of her or have seen her before. Peep me a pic of her.

 

Yeah a little LS get together would be badass...need Steve to come visit so he can teach me to kick some ass.

 

 

Steve,

 

where are they going to ski? I'd guess BC.

 

 

3 of swords,

 

yep, judging by pics is stupid and it frustrates me that people do it...it's one thing to do it in a joking manner like heels and I did with the NFL cheerleaders but to do it for actual people that one can talk to and all that jazz then sheesh, people need to quit being fuggin stupid. 90% of the pics I have seen of people I have known/met in real life look soooo different than their real appearance so people need to look at pics with a grain of salt. Hell, I dont think I have looked the same in any 2 different pics taken at diff times in my life...That's messed up.

 

I still think anyone who gets with someone for their looks and not their personality is a complete moron..unelss they only are getting with the person to have some hump relationship with but that is stupid too. A great personality is damn sexy and makes up for any shortcomings in the physical appearance package.

 

I actually prefer talking to people online without knowing what they look like. It lets you judge them on who they are and also can add interest to guessing what they look like.

 

 

Nick,

 

join the club bro. I'm not all that happy but not because of Ali or any women issues....just find everything boring, as I have told you before.

 

 

 

I hate being at work.

[mj108]

Steve is right! I say if they don't like your pic, ***** em. You don't need someone that's going to judge you by a picture anyway. You need someone that's going to accept you for who you are & you sound like a great person.

 

Me--myself---don't go by what a picture looks like. If I meet a guy in person & he's not that cute but has a great personality & treats people with respect---I'd go out with them. I have been out with great looking guys that turned out to be A-holes. So if they don't like you're photo---***** em. You don't need someone that going to judge you by photo anyway.

 

Take care, think positive & know that you are the best.

 

MJ

[djones]

Hey Guys,

 

I seems like some kind of bad ex mojo crap is haunting us again, I dont know what it is...

 

Nick14-- buddy, hang in there you know what most of us is going to say so i will not say it, our exes seem to have a hold on us and no one is immune to it one day you are good then then next day something comes over us, like a wave...we have to ride it out. I know there are no words I can say or the rest of the gang to help you out, the only thing is to vent here and we all are listening. what our exes do to us is hold our heart strings and leave you hanging and sometimes lost... they say things to hurt us sometimes and you know what they only say that crap to make them feel better they have thelow self esteem, not you it just hurts b/c with all the heart break you are going though and then what she said has made you feel depressed, well none of that crap is true is it? you are good person you know that and you dont have to prove that to anyone, your ex needs to grow up and stop acting like a little child.

 

Me-- Guys the ex has haunted me again also, she called me last night to talk about some problems at work and we talked about us, she wanted to know how things where going with me and my Girl, I told her great...she said she is happy for me yada, yada....So she tells me that she is not going to date for awhile, so i said that good, take care of your self.....I was talking to MJ about this and she helpped me, I just want to know why do they come back when we start to move on, I still had some feelings for her, but I have someone that cares for me and I dont want to risk that, b/c my ex starts to talk to me and she has not said any indication that she wants to get back....It pi$$$es me of that they dumped us and have that control over us and when we finaly have a little gain over our lives they come in and that control is turned back to their favour...why do we get the s***ty end of the stick for this, i think we deseve a phuken break they moved one quickly we suffered so why not give us a chance God....I dont guys i think a am very angery after reading BAS post few days ago and now Nick14 post and what happend to me....it phuken pi$$$es me off we all here do not desever this crap and know i sound like I am a whiny biatch, but you know what enought is enought we all suffereed here for it and I think we all did our "penance" for it, fore me is was since phuken june 2005, like most of you guys.......when will it stop...it friggen affects our new realtionships too, ie Nick14, BAS, Mj, Kodiak and me too.

 

I am pi$$ed guys some one have any light on this s***

 

on a lighter note

 

Weird---I am in for that LS reunion that would be awesome to see you and Mj and who ever else can come...

Oh my girl is 29, you know you may seen her around, before she got her hair changed she had it briaded like that movie with bo derck "10" exactly like that, she has had that hair do for 5 years and now changed it.....i have a pic of her for you to see man,....e-mail me

 

 

3 of swords---yeah pics suck I ma not not at all photgenic, and i get passed by on thoses sites b/c of it...but there are people out there that dont use the pictures to be end all be all for meeting a person, my new girl told me that it was my profile that won her and that my pic didnot do me any justice so you never know, there are people out there looking for substance.

 

Take care guys

[crazydawg]

I just wanna let all you guys that you're not alone in this. Lately i too have been having that sad feeling, thinking how can we be so far apart when in reality she's only 15 min away. I've been thinking that it's the holidays and New Years, that are over that are making us more depressed because normally this should be a great memorial time, except for some. Like me. I like to think of myself of a strong killah, but inside i miss that shorty =( I can attest that one day she'll be sorry. Just like everyone's elses ex's they'll be sorry, because atleast we tried, and didn't give up hope.

Take Care

Hope you make some changes for this New Year, my resolution is to get out there and well atleast attempt to forget about the girl who broke my heart.

[Weird]

Doc,

 

totally agree with what you said. It seems some peeps here who are in new relationships or trying to be in ones have this ex scenario crap popping up making them wonder about things and it all pisses me off. There is a sense I think for exes contacting peeps when things are going well. I bet if I got hooked up with someone Ali would come out of the blue and full out say she wanted to try things out again...I bet it would happen because of the 6th sense exes seem to have.

 

 

Got your email, added you to my MSN list and saw the pic. 29? Hmm, that is my bro's age. What high school did she go to?

 

BTW she is quite cute son. I'd guess her looks are like the cherry on top since I am sure she has a great personality for you to be with her. Love the hair too....shame she changed it. hehe

 

Tell her if she ever sees a dark blue 2005 RL with dark windows around town that is me as I think I have the only new RL in this part of Ontario.

[djones]

Hey Weird,

 

Thanks man yeah she is great, I kind of miss her hair too, but she looks cute now as well, she said she needed a change, so its all good, worse case she can always braid it again ....yeah she is 29, I like the young ones I'm 30 hehe she went to high school in Oakville, I dont know which one. hehehe I will let her know about your car hehe maybe if you see a rusted blue 1993 asuna sunfire at the lights that wants to drag with you, step up to the plate j/k any quick acceleration may blow up my engine poor girl needs to be retired to that big junk yard in the sky

 

 

Yeah I think the exes do have a 6th sence, its just wierd how its happening to some of us here and i have seen it happen to other posters here on LS...

[bigacesteve]

drjones,

you watch that ex of yours, she sounds a little crafty to me. Telling you that she isn't going to date, probably hoping you'll do the same?? You stick with this new girl mate, she's done you good.

[djones]

BAS-- thanks man, I will keep my guard up MJ said the same thing, so I am keeping my distance with the ex, and just keep on working on the new girl. Hows everything with you and that new girl did you meet up with her yet?

[Nick14]

Well obviously my situation is different. She's been quiet since the break up, and then of course instead of telling me i am being a stalker on a one on one basis, she puts it on a away message(only for 10 mins since I IM back in a big way) and now its a big mess. For sure its affecting my life in a big way and like i said i am just lost and confused and I probably need to find myself again. I sure wish my ex was like yours who would crawl back and want to know what your up too at least

[Weird]

nick,

 

I have said it many times before and I will say it again...give it time. Chances are she will regret saying that stalker **** and will contact you.

 

You know my situation with ali. look at how she apologized to me over a year later...and I STILL think she called me worse things that you being called a stalker in an indirect way.

 

We need ot fly you up here and get your mind off that damn immature biatch.

[bigacesteve]

Nick14,

don't be upsetting yourself about this 'stalking' statement. She made a heartless mistake doing that and we've all done stupid things when we've been angry at someone. Like you said, she took the message down when you saw it and told her. Totally out of order on her part but I wouldn't get stressed over it mate, she ain't worth it. My ex came around on New Years day, crying her eyes out, told me she wanted me back, missed me sooo much, was all over me like a rash and then next day told me she'd changed her mind, didn't want to see me again and it was all my fault because I sent a text message saying have a happy new year. Go figure that one out. They're messed up mate, we need to leave them well alone because they will take us crashing down with them. Anyway who gives a s*** what your ex thinks, she won't even talk to you so what does she know? ***** all, that's what she knows about you now. She will discover one day what a good person you are and how she really arsed things up and there was no need for all this childish behaviour. I'm in the same boat; my ex keeps running and there really is no need, I'm a big boy now (no pun intended).

 

drjones,

I keep getting text messages from Vicki and she sounds fairly keen. She's working again tonight but says she'll ring me tomorrow night. Heard nothing from Fliss after speaking to her New Years Eve. She promised me that she'd ring; why do people do that when they really have no intention of doing so. I told her that she didn't have to promise me anything and that she can talk to me anytime. She promised me again but I've heard nothing.

 

Everyone at work is really excited about me getting into the police; loads of them are planning leaving do's for me. They keep asking if I'll be coming back to the gym or play football with them again. It's times like these that I realise just how popular I am and how many people I have met and stayed in contact with. My ex and ex ex were always very jealous of how many friends I had because they were lacking them. I always put them first but look where that got me. My friends have always been there for me no matter the hole I've ended up in.

 

Right going bed, need to catch up on sleep.

 

Goodnight all

[kodiak]

Hey Everybody-

 

Hows everyone doing these days. It seems well. Im happy because it looks like this thread is starting to take off. Im glad. Man i spent about the last hour trying to read everyones post, theres alot going on right now. Anyways my computer has been down and i have been at work alot lately, so i havnt had a time to post. I wil try my best to post tomorrow. I need to catch up!!!!!!!!! Hope everyone is doing well and starting 2005 off in a good way. I will catch you all later, take Care....................Kodiak

[Three of Swords]

Well people. Ever the sucker for punishment, I again sent someone my pic on Lavalife. Third time I did this. Hope springs eternal? I thought this fellow would be a little different as we had been emailing back and forth a bit and things seemed to be going relatively well.

 

So I checked my Lava email at lunch and got the following reply (my excerpt) ... Got your back stage, and sorry, there was no spark! Umm - sorry, it has happened before, so don't think you are the only one. Bye-bye....

 

When I got the first two rejects, (note I did not say rejections, I deliberately said rejects ), I was a bit down. I mentioned it in this thread and got some fantastic support which I me feel a bit more confident. And I thought, yeah - I am OK.

 

Then this. Well I decided that rather than feeling down, I am a bit p.o.'d - so I sent a wee bit of a reply, which I am going to share with you - as I borrowed some of the reassurances that were sent my way. Thanks everyone!! Here goes:

 

______________________

 

"I find it rather amusing that you said that there wasn't a spark when you received my picture and therefore you have unilaterally decided that you were not interested.

 

It is ironic to me that you would say that you weren't expecting a model. Have you ever watched a telly show about the life of a model. Their beauty is enhanced and adorned so that they can do their job - which is to sell you something. Either a product or a perceived need to look a certain way so that you will buy whatever consumer product they are pimping. Also you would have noticed how ordinary models can look without the make-up, lights and camera angles.

 

An unprofessional, un-enhanced photo such as mine is such a flat and static rendition of a moment captured in time. A person's vitality cannot generally be actually measured by the lens and projected in pixels across the world wide web.

 

I AM SOO MUCH MORE THAN THAT PHOTO.

 

Physically, that photo didn't capture all of what I am. I have a warm smile that completely animates my face. My eyes glitter when amused or intrigued. Also, that photo did not show my body which is curvy, lush, fit and agile.

 

But it is my personality which gives me my true spark. I am warm and loving, kind, devoted and considerate. Energetic and fun loving, I have a wicked sense of humour. Besides all that I can also be quite passionate.

 

I am independent, low maintenance and decisive. I am very self-sufficient and strong.

 

Furthermore, I am also extremely knowledgeable, well read and intelligent.

 

Above all, I am also thankful. Thank you for letting me know right away that there was no spark. Because I am soo much better than that picture and I would rather save the time and energy for someone who can appreciate me for who I am.

 

B. "

_____________________

 

 

OK - can someone from LS help me down from my soap-box now!?

 

Well I guess I did get a bit carried away. I could not attribute modest to my list of qualities. But I was a pi$$ed! Does it show?

 

Also I did not document my drawbacks - but then he will never need to know or get to find out will he

 

I think I am going to give Lavalife a rest for now.

 

Composing that e-mail did kinda feel good though. Made me think about my positive attributes for a change.

 

Maybe I should e-mail something similar to the fellow that I have been pinning (such an old-fashioned word - but so fitting) for? Do you think it might make him change his mind?

 

I want to, but I won't.

 

BTW - I broke no contact last night. Lasted 4 days.

 

I have a really good start on 2005, don't I!

 

B.

[bigacesteve]

Three Of Swords,

SOLD!!!

Your list of qualities are everything I've always wanted in a woman. The guy sounds like a complete muppet, NO SPARK what a pathetic thing to say. Like I said, a photo says nothing about a person apart from they have a head. I don't bother using the on-line dating sites anymore, they're full of complete tossers. No one ever replies to me so what's the point. I did get an email once from a beautiful Russian girl who wanted to come see me, marry me and have my babies immediately. I gave it a thought (nanosecond) and said no thanks. Not that desperate yet but I'll take up the offer if I'm still single at 40. I'm 28 and my life is on the up. Just hope this Vicki rings me tonight; she's a great laugh and she is sweet (English for fit as *****).

 

Kodiak,

good to hear from you again. Fill us in on what you've been upto dude.

[djones]

Hey Guys

 

3 of Swords--- excellent qualities!!!, you know what send it to that guy, let him know what he is missing in a greal gal like you. I got my fair share of not interested letters from women on lava...get this I too put my picture in the "backstage" and these women read my profile and find me very interesting they send out a smile and I waste my credits to send them a reply and let them see my backstage and they say sorry i am not interested...what is funny to me is that hey read my porfile and find it very attractive to them and then they base it now on a crappy picture of me. Do you really want to be with someone anyway that is so superfical??? ....there are people out there like that are not so superfical....dont get discouraged belive me I felt bad too about it too when it happens to me, but you know what you dont need people like that anyway you will find a good guy.

 

For me my new girl I found her there on lava, she saw my picture and she was just more interested in what I said and she told me that the picture i had posted did not do me any justice when she saw me in person for the first time. she even offered me to help take more pictures of to post on lava heheh ...but then she said maybe not b/c you are taken so that was nice of her.....She is very cute and I told her you can have any guy you want why would you want me, I am no brad pitt or a good looking guy....she said that in her eyes I am beautiful and its what inside of me that caught her heart....so there are good people out there, you may find him on lava or out on the street you never know......so just think of using your backstage a weeding out process, you dont want a guy that is hung up over looks, you need a guy that cares for you and is honest....beauty fades as we get older, hehe maybe I better hurry up hehehe j/k.....

 

BAS-- Keep us posted it sounds like Viki does like you, try to hook up this weekend for dinner with her, she sounds real cool.....heheh Steve i got one e-mail from a russian woman just like that too...heheh talk about mail order brides .....give her a ring man even if she does not call you, I have a good feeling about this!!

 

Kodiak---Buddy how are you doing?....Good to hear from you, post some stuff about you here man when you get a chance....This year is going to be good for you and for all of us!

 

As for me--- I am doing a lot better today after my little relapse with the ex, thanks to Mj which gave me good advice...thanks Cutie!!...and the rest of the gang to....Our exes do have a 6th sence when we are doing better, the trick in not getting sucked in, I am glad you guys are here to help.....well guys take care

[mj108]

No problem...drjones---always here for you & everyone else.

 

3ofswords---you go girl! I'm proud of ya!

 

As for me---I've been thinking about my ex, a little. He had to go to court today...remember...I was the stupid A** that bonded him out a few months ago. Anyway, I do hope he gets out of it.

I'm going out with one of my exes this weekend. He's 27. We talked on the phone for a long time & he's begging me for a 2nd chance. He sounds like he's for real but I don't know rather to believe him or not.

Hmm...does anyone here feel like you don't have a 'heart' anymore? I mean, I feel like my heart is made of stone now & I don't want this to effect anyone I go out with, you know? I don't want to mold myself into a cold-heartless biatch but I feel like I'm going there...& I'm trying not too.

As for Matt---he's back with his ex. Can't believe he told me he was going to be single until March & he didn't want a relationship but then went back to the ex. Oh well....just makes my heart more of stone.

 

Head/Heels---I got your pms & I'm going to send you another one sometime today. Hope everything is well with you.

 

Well, everyone take care/keep your chin up & always remember it's always better to be mad than sad...atleast for me here lately.

 

MJ

[Weird]

Wassup peeeeeeeeeeeeeps

 

3 of swords,

 

that was friggin awesome! Oh man I was smiling huge when i read that reply you sent.

 

 

Like I have said a few times in this thread...to hell with the people who go by looks. See, dating sites are great when you dont have a pic in the profile right away. You ALWAYS get people feeding utter BULLs*** about how they find your profile interesting and all that jazz and then if you dont do it for them with your INHERITED BONE STRUCTURE they suddenly say they aren't interested. Riiiight.

 

People *****in suck with their lies. The way most people think really pisses me off but hey, to hell with them!

 

I think if somehow as I aged I got to be a stunning looking man and all these women wanted me for my face I would be a total prick to them just to prove my *****in point that your face means jack **** when it comes to the person you are.

 

 

 

MJ,

 

I think your feeling that you don't have a "heart" is normal...well it is to me since I feel the same way.

 

As for Matt he can kiss my ass! What a jackass he turned out to be. Damn him for wasting my sister's time!

 

 

 

 

Do any of you ever wonder if any celebs came to this site? I do and think it'd be cool if we had a celeb here and were giving him/her good advice. Naturally they'd never share their idenity nor do I think I one would be here but ya never know. All I know is it'd be cool to see the real "human" side of a celeb rather than the crap you see on TV that tries to imply they ahve perfect lives.

 

I also often wonder what it'd be like if someone I knew came to this forum and saw this thread and saw my mugshot, read my posts and was like "damn, that's Rob typing all that? Didnt know he thought about this stuff!" hehe.

 

I honestly don't know how I come off here in the care department for people but in reality, I really do not like the human species. I am there for people whom I like and who I can have faith in (like you fine people) and who I meet that are worth my time but to the avg "general" human in the world...bugger off! I have high expectations for humans and they continue to let me down with the disrespect, stupidity, laziness and other thngs like that. Makes me ashamed sometimes. Thankfully those people I know and have in my life are good peeps.

[djones]

Weird--- that is such a cool point, I never thought of that if a celeb would be using this site for advice, that would be neat, like you said they dont have to use thier real name. I am sure that they have problems like us that need to be addressed in the relationship dept, every week it seems like someone in holywood is breaking up with someone.....that is a cool thought man....maybe one of the gang here is famous!!! heheh either way guys famous or not you guys are stars in my book!!! take care, I'll post tommorow

 

p/s MJ---dont make your heart turn to stone...you are too good for that...

[Urban Rubble01]

DrJones, you've figured it out. I, Urban Rubble, the man that has claimed to be "Tyler from Seattle", is really, are you ready ? ................ JOHNNY DEPP. Ladies, come and get me while I'm hot.

 

Anyway, just stopping by to say hi. I just started back at school so that's helping me keep my mind off of things. I've also been working out, reading my ass off and writing alot of music. Rochelle and I hung out a bit on New Years (I made a small bit of progress, when I walked her to her car I said my goodbye and started to leave, SHE made the effort to kiss me, I thought that was nice), only for an hour or so. We've got plans to go see "our" band on Valentines Day (and I think we're going to spend the day together) so I'm going to try and be strong and not see her until then. I was going to try and do the whole month and a half without talking to her, but realistically I'll probably make it 3 weeks max.

 

Three of Swords, don't let these dudes get you down. Trust me, MOST people on these kind of sites are losers anyway (not all, but a good portion). I've seen some of the ugliest, most undesireable scumbags turn down decent women simply because they're so out of touch with who THEY are. So don't let it get you down, you seem cool and any intelligent person knows there is so much more to someone than the way they look.

 

Basically, don't let it to you, if all you have to worry about in this life is the way you look then you've got it made !

[djones]

Hey Guys,

 

UR01 aka Johnny--- I knew it!!! that pic of yours with the hat hidding your face, you were johnny!! back in the day I saw you on 21 jump street hehehe, thats funny man. I am glad to hear you made little progress with Rochelle, the NC you are doing untill V-day send like one or 2 e-mails in that time just to let her keep thinking about you...keep us posted johnny

[Weird]

Originally posted by drjones

Weird--- that is such a cool point, I never thought of that if a celeb would be using this site for advice, that would be neat, like you said they dont have to use thier real name. I am sure that they have problems like us that need to be addressed in the relationship dept, every week it seems like someone in holywood is breaking up with someone.....that is a cool thought man....maybe one of the gang here is famous!!! heheh either way guys famous or not you guys are stars in my book!!! take care, I'll post tommorow

 

hehe yep.

 

It would be sweet if there was an NFL player posting here of say, the Colts. I somehow gave him good advice and became friends with him and he shares to me who he is...he then hooks me up with signed colts junk as well as other NFL signed junk that I can put in my bar. That would rule. Oh and he and Derek become buddies so Derek gets the hookup with junk too as I know Derek is a Colts fan like myself.

 

I'm not a celebrity whore (hope it didn't come off like that in my previous post) but I will admit it'd be neat to know one just to get info on the celeb world and see if it is as messed up & fake as I think it is.

 

How is everyone doing thus far in the year?

[mj108]

Damn, you all caught me! I'm not a celeb...for real..I mean...for real...I'm not.

 

MJ