Three of Swords Posted January 3, 2005 Share Posted January 3, 2005 Hey I am trying to make 2005 a better one - really I am. Working hard on no contact. - I can seem to make it work for not ACUTALLY contacting him. However, still checking up on his activities - internet stalking - yikes I am weak!! Trying other outlets for meeting people - Lavalife for one. Was chatting with two men on there. They asked to see my only posted backstage pic. Well took a chance and allowed them to see it. Results were not wonderful. Prospect number one replied back right away "no thanks - not interested" Prospect number two replied - "oops I have to go nephew is wanting to use the puter". And so the ego spiralled yet further down. Thought I was nearing the bottom and then hey - discovered I can go even further. That string that hope is dangling on is really getting stretched. Don't want it to 'snap' - cause without hope I am nothing. Link to post Share on other sites
head/heels Posted January 3, 2005 Share Posted January 3, 2005 i learned that if you go out and try to replace him with a man right away (even just in conversation ove the internet) it doesnt work and usually makes you feel worse so try to work on you and you only and dont worry about the dudes wanting to see your pic......every person has different tastes.... in fact, today weird and i were looking at colts cheerleading pics (sorry in advance bud if this is even the slightest bit embarrassing) since we are huge colts fans and we stumbled upon some of the colts cheerleading pics and out of like 30 beautiful cheerleaders, we only agreed on a couple of girls and the ones he thought were hot i thought might make a train stop and take a dirt road and he prolly felt the same about my fav ones...so it was funny to see how one person thinks one person is attractive and someone else might not...so dont worry..... i think carmen electra is dooty....but most guys love her.....so beauty is in the eye of the beholder....so dont let it get to you another thing i did after the sad day as i like to call it is work out .... i lost like 25 lbs in the first 6 weeks and was down to 150 and i am 5 10 about the same as when i met my ex....and i have added that back but more so in muscle than fat...i prolly gained about 15 lbs of muscle since then (about 5 months now) and about 10 of fat....and i look 10 X better and feel 10 X better...so eat right, go workout and maybe get a makeover as a reward for your hard work at the gym...new haircut, new outfit or 2 and maybe get some sun and try the whitestrips and then bam....next thing you know you will be beating the guys off with a stick! good luck and Private message me anytime you are feeling down as i check on here about 1 time a day keep your head up! drerk Link to post Share on other sites
Nick14 Posted January 3, 2005 Share Posted January 3, 2005 Hey, guys, hope you all had a happy new year. Me, ehh..so-so, still haven't totally got over my ex and as much as I am trying too, it just won't go away like I want it too. Guess, being called a stalker, still bothers me, even if I got the last word in, abeit now its a big mess obviously. I was talking to wierd earlier and told him how I think about my ex alot but then later on I think "why are you still thinking about her since she treats you like dirt and probably trashes you to her friends about how "my ex is stalking me", quit thinking about it". Obviously that doesn't work cause "bam, there she is again in my head". I guess I am at a cross-roads in my life where, I know she was the one, we were both so-oh-so great for each other, I mean we were "the dorky couple",haha but that was ok, just showed us we were two normal couple, living a normal life with alot in common. I was also telling Wierd how I wish I would of just dropped everything and just walked out when she dropped a bomb on me and just sat at the beach all night instead and just let the anger out on the waves instead of getting into a shouting match for 2 hours that night. Sometimes I wish I would of found these boards before, but then again, who was I to know that the inevitable would happen. I for one, never dreamed of it ever happening, only because, for once in my life in a relationship, I felt so secured and I knew "this was it". Would,I just walk away when she told me, would things be different and she just never heard from me, would she really be thinking, I don't know, I keep shaking my head about it, but what makes me shake my head more is how someone doesn't want to be friends in a smaller role at least and how I want to work it out. I guess that makes me think that she is not ready for it and has not gotten over me or she just doesn't want to know me anymore. I mean if she didn't want me in her life, she could of just said **** off, leave me alone in person and thats that. I can accept that and respect that courage, I probably come off with a rebuttal just to be sure and if same answer then thats that, I tried. V-day is going to be hard, cause it signifies our 3 year relationship anniversary. I am not going to contact her, cause I know she probably will expect it, instead I'll probably hike the highest trail overlooking the ocean and probably just sit there overlooking the ocean and probably be crying for a few hours and just shaking my head, I dunno this just should not happen, it shouldn't happen to good people like her and I, things were so good and now things feel...feel so dead with her and I, its terrible and it should never happen in the first place with the breakup. Now I can't be her friend when I wanna try a new challenge, sighs....Sleepless in Santa Barbara, I swear ugh... Link to post Share on other sites
Weird Posted January 3, 2005 Share Posted January 3, 2005 in fact, today weird and i were looking at colts cheerleading pics (sorry in advance bud if this is even the slightest bit embarrassing) since we are huge colts fans and we stumbled upon some of the colts cheerleading pics and out of like 30 beautiful cheerleaders, we only agreed on a couple of girls and the ones he thought were hot i thought might make a train stop and take a dirt road and he prolly felt the same about my fav ones...so it was funny to see how one person thinks one person is attractive and someone else might not...so dont worry..... Mmmm, the colts cheerleader swimsuit and chaps pics. Dude, we agreed on like 3 of our top 6 pics. After looking at them more I took michelle off my list. I will say the ones I thought were hot you thought were hot...just that other ones that I thought were pretty good you I guess didn't think so. hehe. Three of Swords, Don't let a couple of jackoffs get you down simply because they stopped showing interest after seeing your pic. Those people are pieces of trash although sadly they comprise most of the world BUT there are good people out there who arent like that. In mid 2003 I signed up to a site (think it was lavalife) to try and meet some new girl to get my mind off my ex (this was like 3 or 4 months after we stopped talking) and I saw a profile of this girl who sounded pretty cool and as an added bonus looked nice. I messaged her and she messaged me back saying she was interested because we had very similar interests in our profiles. We started talking on MSN and she seemed to be a weird one but I kept talking to her. One day I started to think she was feeding me some BS with some of the details of her life (every day it was something new that was just not believable) so I called her out on it and said I wanted to get together with her one day just as a friend. She got all defensive and said we would never meet and I asked why and she said she didn't find me attractive at all (she saw a lousy pic of me from my profile a few days after I posted it) and that was the end of that. Again, she most likely wasn't who she said she was and I was done with talking to her anyway but still, she commented on my looks in a negative way. At the time I let it get me down but later realized hey, screw people who are like that and I also realized my ex was prettier than her so if my ex who is attractive finds me physically appealing then I am sure other females can too. If a female wants to base her opinion of me just on my average looking face and ignore everything else that makes Rob the human being then that is her problem. I know I am a great guy and I have a bunch of stuff in my life that I can offer which I think most girls would kill to have in their lives. So don't let these morons out there get you down. You will find a new guy who is worth your time and won't be a prick like those two guys on lavalife are. I actually laugh at all the people who reject others because of their looks. First, looks arent something we got to choose so it is asinine to judge a person on them. Second, looks fade. Third, last time I checked you cant really hold a conversation and all that jazz with a person's body or bone structure and the people who try to get stuck with airhead trophy wives/husbands and feel empty because of it. Fourth, I have seen/known a bunch of physically attractive females who have non-existent personalities or hold no redeeming qualities other than their faces/bodies that I shake my head at how guys want to be with them. Link to post Share on other sites
Three of Swords Posted January 3, 2005 Share Posted January 3, 2005 Was rereading some of the posts on here and hey Nick14, Isicles - V - Day is soo far away! We shouldn't let the thoughts of that day get us down just yet. Plenty of time to line something distracting up. (Nick - can I join you in screaming over the ocean please - it is soo cold here : minus 22 Celcius) Just by chance, I have something to look forward to in February. I have loved Mudvayne for a few years now and they have announced their only Canadian tour date will be in Toronto, February 10. So yah - I am working towards getting there. My son will be going with me. So am also looking forward to spending some time with him too. (His girlfriend is taking priority these days and as he no longer lives at home, I hardly see him) Put in 7 hours of overtime yesterday. Will put in hopefully about 4 more today and will volunteer more next weekend. Otherwise will not be able to afford to go. Especially after the consumer spending I participated in over Christmas. Between working two jobs, squeezing in exercise when I can, working overtime, etc. I shouldn't have enought time to think about my Unrequited Love Interest you would think!! Well maybe he could stay out of my dreams at night!! So the first thing I think about before my eyes are even open is him. Any suggestions on how to accomplish that people? Link to post Share on other sites
Three of Swords Posted January 3, 2005 Share Posted January 3, 2005 Hey thanks guys - Head/Heels & Wierd for the support over the Lava experience. I am having issues about my looks lately. Concerns about my attractiveness, etc. I do THINK that I have something to offer - cause I try to be a nice Hummon - but looks are like the bait aren't they - at least somewhat. Likely having these issues cause I am not soo young anymore! So those losers hit a nerve. So I should say their loss and move on! Does anyone ever meet anyone 'good' on those sites? Yesterday while working the OT I had some time to think and decided counselling might help those self-esteem issues. Called "The Support Network" and got guess what - no answer!! That's right peoples over the holidays when there might be some need for support - nothing. Not even an answering machine. Will try again tommorrow when everything should be open. Link to post Share on other sites
head/heels Posted January 3, 2005 Share Posted January 3, 2005 reply to Weirds post above he is right we did agree on 3 of 6....and the ones he picked did look like females ....kinda!! ......but no seriously, we are talking about pro cheerleaders, can they not be good looking ,, i mean isnt that one of the prerequisites? but in all seriousness our short list of the hotties were different so that just goes to show you that each of us have different taste in the opp sex..cheerleaders or not! ok..i have to read the rest of the post and will be back soon d Link to post Share on other sites
head/heels Posted January 3, 2005 Share Posted January 3, 2005 you should call for some help...........i think you might actually enjoy it....you will learn alot about yourself and your self esteem will benefit.....my ex needs to do the same but unfortunately she is too proud and too embarrassed to go...just one of her many flaws.... oh well i pray for her everyday and leave it in His hands... stay in touch with us 3 of swords and take it slowly derek Link to post Share on other sites
djones Posted January 3, 2005 Share Posted January 3, 2005 HEy Guys, Happy new year....I am doing good, I had good time with the new girl on New years we got to see her friends and she got to meet my best firends which was nice and we still had time for alone time together ....Guess what my ex contacted me on newyears day we chit chatted for a bit and asked me how things are going with the dating seen, she said she is going out on a blind date...i said thats great, and that i am seeing someone now....So that was that I think we are on talking terms, thats fine with me I am happy where I am right now.. 3 of swords-- yeah the lavalife thing can be a little crazy but take your time there are some nice people out there I met my ex and my current gf on lava so you never know...good luck with it.... Nick--good to hear from you buddy, yeah the ex still haunts us in one way or another just try to foget her and work on the new girl.. Link to post Share on other sites
Three of Swords Posted January 4, 2005 Share Posted January 4, 2005 Originally posted by Three of Swords V - Day is soo far away! We shouldn't let the thoughts of that day get us down just yet. Plenty of time to line something distracting up. (Nick - can I join you in screaming over the ocean please - it is soo cold here : minus 22 Celcius) Oopps! Spoke to soon. Grabbed a few groceries tonight on the way home from work. What's right the the front of the store but V- Day candy!!!! And a whole whack of Hallmark greetings! Give a body a break Still cold - my lettuce froze on the walk home (10 blocks) B. Link to post Share on other sites
UnicornGirl Posted January 4, 2005 Share Posted January 4, 2005 Yes, I had a similar experience ... the whole disgusting red and pink pile of junk awaited me as I stepped through the sliding doors of the grocery store yesterday. Only made me remember for the 47th time of the day that it's been close to 20 days of this "no contact" jazz ... thought I'd give it a try since nothing else works. I realize now that for things to truly "go well" or "get better," I'd need a competent ex-boyfriend. It is at times like this that I feel the world is laughing in my face. Arrrrggh ... 2005 is not getting off to a good start. Link to post Share on other sites
Nick14 Posted January 4, 2005 Share Posted January 4, 2005 Ya, no crap guys, whats up with the stores already selling V-day stuff? I felt like trashing that little small area. Maybe I should go to vegas on V-day and just get drunk and gamble and then hopefully pass out in my room. Ehh..I wish V-day never existed in this new year especially since it is a aniversary date of that ex who calls me a stalker, wow how wrong of her!! Link to post Share on other sites
Three of Swords Posted January 4, 2005 Share Posted January 4, 2005 Hey - can LS get a bulk discount? That would be a good way to spend V-Day! Link to post Share on other sites
bigacesteve Posted January 4, 2005 Share Posted January 4, 2005 drjones, so good to hear that everything is going well between you and the new lady. I hope the same thing happens to me and the rest of us on here one day. My ex has messed with my head again but I'm back at work now and all my sport starts again which will take my mind off it all. Boxing starts tomorrow and I am ready to train hard and kick arse. Nick14, that's s*** what your ex did to you, calling you a stalker just because you go the same gym and that. There was no need for that. And what is so difficult for them to actually speak to us when they see us, we don't have a contagious disease! If she'd actually spoken to you there wouldn't be this stupid misunderstanding; totally over the top and out of order. Three Of Swords, those dating sites are not a good way of gauging how attractive you are. Photos don't show anything of what a person is like really. Everyone is looking for a supermodel. I'm sure that when you're out and you're happy, having a laugh with friends and you've forgotten just for a brief period of time about the ex, you're at your most beautiful and then is when the attention will come. It's all about the confidence and happiness that you project that captures peoples attention. So we must all turn those frowns upside down, even if it hurts like hell. I've tried those dating sites and I get no responses whatsoever, I don't even get a "***** off please" so you've been lucky? I get loads of attention when I'm out having a laugh with friends though and I get told by women (usually married or seeing someone) that they cannot believe I'm single. My ex has wrecked any friendship she had with my friends and my parents now. All my friends saw her New Year with me and thought we were back together again. When I told them that she came around crying, wanting to get back together and then the next day sent me a toss text message saying she didn't want to see me again they were really angry. I had to calm my friends down because they wanted to tell her what they thought of her the next time they bumped into her; not what I want. I'm not going to let Valentines Day effect me; I'm through with sending cards to people who don't deserve them. It's my mothers birthday on V day anyway so I'll be getting a birthday card instead. Then again I'll be a policeman (training) and I might find myself a gorgeous policewoman, turn into a soft b4stard and do the V day thing anyway. All the policewomen I have seen up to now have been really really fit. Take care of yourselves all Link to post Share on other sites
djones Posted January 4, 2005 Share Posted January 4, 2005 Hey Guys, BAS-- thanks for being happy for me, since kodiak and I started the orginal thread back I think in june 2004 I have been hoping that all the guys/gals here find someone good that will care for them. This process of getting over the ex takes a long *****ing time, our exes carved a piece out of our hearts that really have hurt us in many ways. for me like the rest of you all heart break and physicaly I lost a lots of wieght, not even the Christmas pudding helped me to gain it back, but I am trying, I am thankfull that this new girl is with me. There are many times durning my dealing with the ex, I wanted to drop this new girl and all of you guys I am glad told me to stick it out and stay with this girl. You guys are right she has been great to me, she cares for me and so far has not treated me wrong. Yesterday she called me on the phone and told me that her firends at school wanted to know what she did over the holydays and she mentioned to the girl about me, and they all wanted to meet me and wanted to know if I had any friends here that they could meet, Man all I could think was guys why are you not here where I live BAS, Kodiak, Nick, Wierd, HandH, UR1 I could have gotten the big set up a huge mass blind date ....appearantly my girl has said they are all very attractive you you guys could have your picks ....When i told her that all my firends that i know live far away and I am last of my breed here, she said to me that well you are taken so you are off the market, I was so flattered, no one have ever told me nice stuff like that, I was blushing like a little girl on the phone, I am very self conscious about stuff like that, I just dont think of myself as a good looking guy and my girl see something that I dont see and its nice of her.....Its nice to have someone that cares....its just wierd that it has happend to me, I dont know what will happen with us, but atleast I know I have you guys here to help me out. I am so pissed off after reading what has happend with you BAS and the ex, my heart leaped out when i read and i thought that you guys were getting back together then she tells you the next day she does not....*****, why do our exes do crap like that, we gave them all the love they need when we were in the realtionship and then they break it off and now they want that feeling of power that they can still have us and then we give them a chance they screw us over....it like did they ever love us? who the hell in thier right mind would do that to us. Steve I think that girl you had mentioned before give her a shot she sounds cool, I think you should try dating her and take your time if it works out then great, there is no rush, but I think its time for you buddy to start the new off with your new job, the kickboxing, and maybe a new love 3 of Swords, Unicorn Girl and Nick14-- I hate this V-day crap also, as soon as one holyday is over they shove this crap down our throats. I hate V-day all the time I was growing up I never had someone for that day so I just think of it as another day, why should we feel like we need someone for that day just b/c I think its just a day for companies to make money, if you have someone I think V-day is everyday. I think love will find everyone here soon, just keep your eyes open. HandH and Weird-- How are you guys doing?....The colts cheerleeders? hehehehe I would like to see that Hey Kodiak--- how are you doing buddy, drop us a line Link to post Share on other sites
iceisles Posted January 4, 2005 Share Posted January 4, 2005 I might as well chime in here. I'm looking forward to a fresh start in '05. During the last six months, I have learned a lot of from you LS folks, and it is nice to know that there are MANY others out there dealing with the same kind of problems and frustration. Many times we feel all alone after someone screws us over or leaves us like yesterday's news, and there is great solace to be found on these boards. My ex isn't coming back, and I'm glad to say that I could care less. While I may have lost her, I've made some great friends on here - friends that have given me the strength to rigorously stick with NC, rebuild my confidence, and take new chances. I'm talking to some people, and even had a great date. 2005 may just be the next flip on the calendar, but I'm using it as the groundwork for a new beginning. My resolution this year? To not let one person drag me down like an anchor. I will just be myself, continue to work hard to be a better person, and hope that someone will appreciate that one day. On the subject of V-day, yeah, it sucks. I've always hated it, but that bitterness comes from never having anyone. I could see myself liking it with the right person. This year, like years past, I will quickly walk past the aisles full of red and white merchandise on my way to the video game section. I'd much rather be kicking a 50 yard field goal or hijacking someone's car instead of drowning in commerical romanticism. Here's to a hopefully prosperous '05, everyone. Link to post Share on other sites
mj108 Posted January 4, 2005 Share Posted January 4, 2005 Thank God my little bro, Rob, told me where the thread was at. I thought everyone gave up on them since they keep closing them. Thanks--Kodiak, my drinking partner, for starting up a new one. I'm going to have to read everyones post but I'll have to do it later since I'm busy at the office. I noticed some newcomers on here! Welcome---this thread is open to everyone! We are all going through the same emotions---pain---anger etc. Everyone here has helped me out a lot! Just wanted to fill everyone that is new here about my situation. I'll try to make it short. I was with my ex for 2.5 years & he went back to the girl that bore his kids, which I've accepted but he was seeing me & her at the same time. My niece (5 yrs. old---getting custody of) got close to their kids....they are like family to her. He went back to a psycho girl that is on drugs etc. He threw my heart on the ground & smashed it. I've vented anger, frustration, sadness, loneliness on the board many times. We all go through the emotions, you know? Anyway, I went to ole Miss. for New Years & had a wonderful time until my ex called me around 10 (Sat.). He left a message & told me that psycho wacko (the girl he's with now) was going to call me because she's mad about my niece giving their kids christmas gifts. Anyway, The pyscho got the number to where I was at & called me at 4:30 a.m. in the morning. Her & I got into it over the phone & she told me she was going to be waiting on my doorstep...I told her---"BRING IT ON!" I got home & she wasn't on my doorstep;however, since I'm going for custody for my niece---I have to think about her---she's my angel. I don't need anything on my record (it's clean!) & I know that if psycho would had been on my doorstep 2 things could had happened: 1) She would had ended up in the hospital (my record would had been screwed!) or 2) She would had been tasting those sweet heavenly clouds (I would had ended up in jail forever). So thinking about this---I decided to call the police & I made a police report out on her. I told my exes brother that my ex doesn't need to contact me anymore. My ex wanted us to be friends but I do not see it happening, especially since he is with her. So----it's goodbye for me. Eventhough he treated me like crap---my heart is still with him, but I know that for 2005---I need to move on...I have to. I can't mope around wanting him to come back because what if a good guy gets away because I'm focused on the ex? Head/heels, I got your pm. Thanks so much. I'm going to reply later. New Years for me went great. I met a wonderful guy & he wants to drive to see me this weekend. But I talked to drjones about this---& he asked me "Could you do the LDR thing?" I really don't know. I don't think I can and I might tell him that he should wait to come see me. I mean, I just met him On New Years. What do you all think? I'm at work now & it's busy but I will read the post & reply later. You all have a wonderful day/night. Talk to you soon. MJ Link to post Share on other sites
Weird Posted January 4, 2005 Share Posted January 4, 2005 three of swords, you do have something to offer and ***** all the douchebags out there who just go by looks. As for good people on lavalife, there are some. a friend of mine got with his current girl from lavalife. She is the PERFECT example of how photos mean nothing. She looks nothing like her photos she had on the site or sent to him. She looks better than the photos. Anyway, she is a really cool girl from the time I spent around her. Steve, agreed. I dont think guys get much feedback on dating sites. I guess girls think it is the guy's job to message them and when they do they dont feel the need to be nice and message back. Pretty pathetic. When I was on a dating site in late 2003 I had a few girls first message me and all of them were cool peeps that I still sorta talk to today. I think I could have any of them but they all had some areas that were deal breakers. See, I am looking for the perfect girl (perfect for me/my personality that is) and will not settle on anyone that I know doesnt reach those expectations. I'll all about not wasting any time. I actually started writing up a questionaire type thing I would ask any potential partners...not like in an exam sort of way but in the course of conversation ask these questions. I figured hey, if I have the things that are important to me written down I will know what I want. Link to post Share on other sites
Weird Posted January 4, 2005 Share Posted January 4, 2005 I just would like to extend a nice group hug to all my peeps on here especially to the new posters, 3 of swords, unicorn girl and audrey. I wish you all lived around here...coudl all come over, drink keg beer while playing sega marine fishing on the dreamcast in the bar room. hahaha Hey if you guys ever want to come to ontario for a vacation do it in the summer...my family has a very nice boat so we could have a bbq and go for a nice boat cruise. Jones, good to hear things with the new girl are going well and hey, I'm in Ontario so I'd be good to hook up with one of her friends. hehehe:) j/k MJ, sis, I would love to see you drop that bitch. I'll record it on a dvd and sell it and we can split the profits. Deal? Link to post Share on other sites
djones Posted January 4, 2005 Share Posted January 4, 2005 Hey Guys, Glad to see we are finding each other again and new people keep on posting here, I am glad to see some new faces like Iceisles--- hey if you feel like it could you post your story here maybe we can help you or you can help us with your experience. Wierd-- hehe thats sounds cool man a couple of beers and a BBQ sounds awesome in the summer....what part of ontario, I think you told me ottawa right?...I am from toronto, actually Oakville, I figure you being an ontario boy you would know where oakville is.....Hey Weird post that Questionare you are making, I think it would be a great screeening tool for all of us!!!....hehe I will keep a good word out for you to my new girl's school friends... MJ-- I would pay to see that you drop that Biatch, a few kickboxing moves and we got a pay per view DVD out, hey Weird I will buy a copy off of you guys for sure!! Link to post Share on other sites
iceisles Posted January 4, 2005 Share Posted January 4, 2005 Thanks for the welcome, drjones. I became a member in October after my ex gave me the classic "I need space" line back in September. Anyone who remembers my thread can attest to how long that post was. I basically overheard her talking (quite intimately) to another guy one night on the phone while she thought I was asleep. I questioned her about it, she said she only wanted to be with me (and never even met that guy), and right on cue 48 hours later, I get the classic "I need space" e-mail and have hardly heard from her since. My attempt to reconcile during the holidays failed miserably, so I have left her to ride someone else's broomstick while I move on with my life. I have decided that she doesn't want me in her life, so why should I lose sleep over someone who doesn't care about me anymore? I'm sure she's sacking up with this new dude while contently and conveniently brushing our relationship under the carpet. Thankfully, I have gained a lot of strength from dealing with my situation, and in an odd way, I do think her dropping me like hot potato has given me great fortitude to steam ahead and meet other people. I don't have anything big in the works, but I suppose the important thing is that I'm trying and not living in the past. Keeping a positive attitude is not always easy to do, but the folks on this site are always good reassurance that despite the heartache, life does go on. Link to post Share on other sites
audrey Posted January 4, 2005 Share Posted January 4, 2005 hey guys, thanks for welcoming me, Its nice to know theres people to vent to. Feeling quite good today but sort of think that with all this talk of V-day that the year is spinning away already. How wierd that time passes by so quickly sometimes I forget that I've not been crying in a day or so or wanted to kick the crap out of any passing strangers. How's that for progress? xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx Link to post Share on other sites
Weird Posted January 4, 2005 Share Posted January 4, 2005 Doc, hehe nah dude, I live in Burlington...right beside ya:) I'll find my questionaire and slap it on here. I never finsihed it but I will ahve to get back to work on it soon. hehe Oh and you get a copy of the MJ beating of that psycho bitch for free. All of the members here will get a free copy. Like you, I think it is great to see new peeps posting here. I love it. Audrey, hahaha sweet. I often wanna kick the crap out of passing strangers. iceisles, keep it up son...good to read you're healing and you have a great philosophy regarding her. Link to post Share on other sites
djones Posted January 5, 2005 Share Posted January 5, 2005 Hehe hey weird---that is so cool, that you live so so close to me actually I just moved from oakville to brampton about a month ago, but my Girl lives in burlington like you!! one day we do have to meet a mini LS reunion, hehe Mj just told me that she wants to meet up with her liitle bro you!! we all should go out for a beer!!! ice---I glad you joined the group, you sound like you are doing ok, keep it up, if you need help we all are here for ya!, yeah that whole "i need space" is whole load of crap, if you need space, buy a bigger house!!! Audrey-- you are makeing progress, one of the steps in getting better is to kick the crap out of passing strangers, it's very therapeutic....it's like chicken noodle soup for the soul Link to post Share on other sites
bigacesteve Posted January 5, 2005 Share Posted January 5, 2005 Not fair, my housemates are going on a skiing holiday in Canada tomorrow morning. I couldn't go because I can't risk injury before starting in the police 31st Jan... b4stard!!! On a good note though I've received a text message from the girl I met (got off with) on Xmas Eve; the girl I fancied years ago. She's been really ill but is ok now, wants to meet up sometime. I'll keep you all posted. Welcome everyone who is new here, more the merrier. iceisles, sounds like an absolute worst nightmare situation you went through with your heartless ex. Sounds like you're dealing with it quite well. Stiff upper lip old chap, we'll all get through this. Start boxing again tomorrow; I'm nowhere near fit enough, it's going to be nails!! Right better go bed, got to be up at 6 to see these tossers off. Laters all Link to post Share on other sites
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