K Os Posted November 28, 2013 Share Posted November 28, 2013 Any thoughts are welcome on this one. She left, she moved out, she lives practically next door(!) Inevitably, I see more of her than I'd like. I hate this more than I can say. I know I can't stop her from giving me a wave when she sees me, it's a free country, but I find this so infuriating that I feel I need to do something about it. We're not on friendly terms, or even neighbourly terms. I know I should just ignore it, but it burns. Maybe moving away really is the only answer. What to do? Link to post Share on other sites
Yasuandio Posted November 28, 2013 Share Posted November 28, 2013 Start planning your move. In the meantime, turn you place into Chick Heaven." Get as many girls to come over to your pad as possible. Maybe when your at a bar - invite a group of girls over for free drinks and snacks! But have a lot of good munchies ready for them. Canned or refrigerated drips, chips, nachos, nuts, stuff like that to fill them up. Have a blender - and an assortment of drink mixes. Just don't make them too strong. Keep the girls eating. Candles, etc. When u get to know a few chicks - plan a get-together, your place will be known as "Party Central.". Even if it is only 3 female friends - no one really knows what's up over at your place! Get creative! Have fun, while your place is on the market. Yas 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Author K Os Posted November 28, 2013 Author Share Posted November 28, 2013 Yas, Thanks for the thoughts, but I'm surprised at you I think you know my tale better than that. She's been gone 18 months. First off, I'd better not put this place on the market or my landlord will get the police involved Secondly, chicks? Chicks? Chicks?? Seriously? Lol. Apart from that being silly, completely unachievable, and the last thing on my mind, what do you feel that would achieve? I don't want my ex to wonder what I'm up to, make her curious, make her miss me, or anything of the sort. I just want her to pay me the respect of leaving me the hell alone. Generally, though, yeah - better just move house at last, I think. I'm out of other ideas. Link to post Share on other sites
Yasuandio Posted November 28, 2013 Share Posted November 28, 2013 Yas, Thanks for the thoughts, but I'm surprised at you I think you know my tale better than that. She's been gone 18 months. First off, I'd better not put this place on the market or my landlord will get the police involved Secondly, chicks? Chicks? Chicks?? Seriously? Lol. Apart from that being silly, completely unachievable, and the last thing on my mind, what do you feel that would achieve? I don't want my ex to wonder what I'm up to, make her curious, make her miss me, or anything of the sort. I just want her to pay me the respect of leaving me the hell alone. Generally, though, yeah - better just move house at last, I think. I'm out of other ideas. Sorry, I got carried away, Hon. Been up all night partying. You've answered your own question, best to just pick up and move house rather than getting your buttons pushed on a daily basis. You can still set up a cool Bacholar Pad. I wish I could move. Although improving, it remains not quite yet the ideal seller's market here in Atlanta, plus the attorney has a lien on the house. Otherwise - I would move as far away as possible - maybe Washington State or Singapore. That Lil' Nazi makes it a point to cruise my neighborhood and sub-division all the time in either his black or silver convertible Mercedes. Really ticks me off big time. See, it could be worse. But will be ok, Yas is damn smart with handling real estate and crooked lawyers. Count your blessings! You are free and mobile! Yas Link to post Share on other sites
Author K Os Posted November 28, 2013 Author Share Posted November 28, 2013 Yeah Sorry Yas, I didn't mean to come back at you harshly. I've closed the curtains and had some hot food and am feeling a bit more relaxed about it now. It does happen too often, though, and yes I do feel buttons are being deliberately pushed. This time she was walking (our) dog, my little hairy friend that I haven't seen for weeks. Ticks me off. Particularly the waving. I don't own a rifle I agree, a long way away is best. I'm giving serious thought to upping sticks and heading to Russia - I've got friends and good work offers there. It's mainly my son that keeps me here. And the dog Link to post Share on other sites
ShannonBanana Posted November 28, 2013 Share Posted November 28, 2013 My hubby is 9 times zones away which is good in some very important ways. It felt good to get on the plane and leave so much of the pain behind and to not be within his reach. Link to post Share on other sites
Author K Os Posted November 28, 2013 Author Share Posted November 28, 2013 My hubby is 9 times zones away which is good in some very important ways. It felt good to get on the plane and leave so much of the pain behind and to not be within his reach. Yes, being in another country is a good feeling. I've travelled abroad more in the past 18 months than at any other time in my life, and that's no coincidence. Maybe I should just stop coming back. A skype relationship with my son would just feel so sad. Link to post Share on other sites
Yasuandio Posted November 28, 2013 Share Posted November 28, 2013 (edited) Of course, violence is not the answer. But I would do something very very devious, but somewhat harmless, yet very problematic, that cannot be detected or connected to you. Just PM me for details. Edited November 28, 2013 by Yasuandio Link to post Share on other sites
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