AuroraFaery Posted December 30, 2004 Share Posted December 30, 2004 Ok I was engaged to the "love of my life" for two years. I made some mistakes.... left him due to madness... and well we have been apart for a year and i still miss him to death.. We are attempting to stay friends but we always end up having sex, and i can sense he his tring to pull off a tuff guy act of "oh look how cool i am...i have moved on and you cant... look how many girlfriends i've had since you!!!" Well anyway... one of these such girlfriends, who is now his ex...( and a woman he got pregnant but who had the sense to get an abortion)....who i have met while he was with her..*TORTURE****** ( but the weird thing is he would pay attention to me and not her when the three of us were together , and pick on her in front of me??) WANTS TO HANG OUT WITH ME NEW YEARS EVE!!!!!!!!!!!!!! MY EX FIANCE WANTS ME TO HANG OUT WITH HIS EX GIRLFRIEND NEW YEARS EVE... AND I BARELY KNOW HER. I MET HER ONCE. HE WANTS ME TO BE BEST FRIENDS WITH HER AND HANG OUT WITH HER WITHOUT HIM. WHAT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! WHAT DOES THIS MEAN!!!!!!!!!! please someone help >:< Link to post Share on other sites
indigo_moon Posted December 30, 2004 Share Posted December 30, 2004 He's your ex and things didn't work out for a reason. There's nothing positive that can be gained by trying to maintain a relationship with an ex, even if it is a friendship -for you can see that already there's drama and confusion. Nevermind him or his ex girlfriend, it's too weird. Just find your own friends to hang with, unless you like this unnecessary drama? Link to post Share on other sites
GirlDown Posted December 30, 2004 Share Posted December 30, 2004 maybe she doesn't have any friends and thinks you two may have something in common because you both know this guy. or maybe she is planning on celebrating the new year by tying you up and doing weird things to you. either way, go with your gut. let him make his own plans. there's an "EX" in front of that "boyfriend" word for a reason. Link to post Share on other sites
Devildog Posted December 30, 2004 Share Posted December 30, 2004 On the bright side, getting two ex's together alone could be alot of fun. Just think of all the bashing you could do, the tales you could relate to. I am sure you both have plenty of stories about him and his issues. Might help both of you to move past that stage of your life and you might find a good friend who you have some things in common with. Link to post Share on other sites
Adunaphel Posted December 30, 2004 Share Posted December 30, 2004 Why should you hang out with her? He might think, in a very naive way, that you'd be perfects friends because he sees that you have much in common. He might enjoys playing games. She might have been the one to ask him to help her to get to know you better...perhaps she is hoping to talk you into leaving your ex bf to her. Or she heard so many nice things about you and now she'd genuinely like to become friends with you. He might want to get rid of her. He might have something to tell you and he might prefer to let you know it through her than telling you in person. Don't find out, it's not worth it. Don't hang out with her no matter what he asks you to do. It would be too weird. Link to post Share on other sites
debs Posted December 30, 2004 Share Posted December 30, 2004 *snickering* Put me in arms distance of his now g/f look out world it will be one no so nice scenario!!! Even if she became his ex, I wouldn't do it! No reason to see or talk to her on any level! It does make you wonder just where his brain cells are? In his butt????? Make your own plans for New Years Eve and tell him I am sorry I DO! have other plans! Link to post Share on other sites
XNemesisX Posted December 30, 2004 Share Posted December 30, 2004 That is just weird. Just tell him "Umm let me think about that one.....NO" I don't think you could really be friends with this girl unless you two were both over him completely. Otherwise, talking about him is only going to hurt your feelings. Link to post Share on other sites
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