Beachgirl91 Posted December 2, 2013 Share Posted December 2, 2013 I haven't actually thought of IC. Maybe I thought this wasn't really IC worthy if that makes sense. Like I should just get over it. I'm going to look into it tomorrow. Thanks so much for your posts. It's so helpful to see someone further out than me and surviving and doing well! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Cdngirl5279 Posted December 3, 2013 Share Posted December 3, 2013 You're very welcome Beachgirl! After my first session, I felt 30 pounds lighter and I started sleeping much better. It is worth a try....it can help you a great deal. Especially because these relationships aren't shared usually with all of your friends and family. Please let me what you decide! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Nothisgirl Posted December 3, 2013 Share Posted December 3, 2013 Our hand was 'forced' so to speak as his W had suspicions. Perhaps it needs to be done when you aren't face to face? You're probably right, idk that I can look him in the eye and have the strength to walk away ..I know that sounds so melodramatic but its such a deep feeling...it feels like a real genuine loving relationship and I think because of that and because its so good it feels unnatural to end it (I KNOW it's not "real" and all the reasons I do need to end it) the problem is that in the beginning we made a deal that if either one of us wanted to end it we would do it face to face..so idk what to do.. Thanks again for responding..I should probably start a new thread .. Link to post Share on other sites
dichotomy Posted December 3, 2013 Share Posted December 3, 2013 I will share second hand account FYI ... yes, but more competitive or dominating... then jealous. When it was potential good friend of his, who was single - it got extreme. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Cdngirl5279 Posted December 3, 2013 Share Posted December 3, 2013 You're probably right, idk that I can look him in the eye and have the strength to walk away ..I know that sounds so melodramatic but its such a deep feeling...it feels like a real genuine loving relationship and I think because of that and because its so good it feels unnatural to end it (I KNOW it's not "real" and all the reasons I do need to end it) the problem is that in the beginning we made a deal that if either one of us wanted to end it we would do it face to face..so idk what to do.. Thanks again for responding..I should probably start a new thread .. It's up to you, do it face to face....and have a repeat performance of nothing changing, or do it in a public place - say what you need to say, get up and walk out. Or do it face to face. It doesn't sound melodramatic at all! You feel what you feel.....I felt like I lost a bf when we were finished. But what's done is done. We both deserve someone who can love us 100% of the time, and ONLY us! 2 Link to post Share on other sites
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