lovehurts5 Posted November 29, 2013 Share Posted November 29, 2013 My boyfriend always gets annoyed with me because of my insecurities. And yes, I admit it, a lot of the time I am insecure but it's something that I try to work on. I'm like 80% better than I was 3 months ago because it was getting to the point where it was effecting our relationship. There are some moments where I can't help but say something... Even when I know it's nothing and hell just get annoyed with me but it just comes out anyway!! For example, he always likes other girls pictures on Instagram and never mine.... And that's something that bothers me but he tells me I'm just immature and crave too much attention. So whatever that's that. And lately, a lot of the pictures have been of blondes and he has never ever been attracted to blondes. So sometimes I'm like what are you becoming attracted to them!? He says no. So tonight he liked some blonde fitness girl in her bra and I texted him like blondes on insta huh? And he goes there you go again being your old insecure self. You're rediculous. Now he's not talking to me. I knew the girl was nothing and that she's a random person in the world he doesn't even know and I knew he'd be annoyed but my comment. It literally just shoots out of me at times tho... I can't help but say something even tho I know I shouldn't. Angry at myself... Link to post Share on other sites
Toddbt12y1 Posted November 30, 2013 Share Posted November 30, 2013 Why are you angry for feeling how you do? He has surely weakened your self confidence. I do not know of many guys who would like a bunch of other girls(bra and panties or not), so brazenly to where his g/f could literally see. This is disrespectful of you, and how you literally feel about this. Each time you state how you feel(even if it isn't always in a proper way), he flips this around on you; makes this due to your immaturity or something. He isn't like that blonde cause she's a blond. He is liking her cause she is half naked, and he thinks her body is hot. He clearly has no respect for you. Yes, people will look at other people(doesn't make it right), but to the level he is doing this, is crazy. This is not a cheating issue, this is a respect issue. One he clearly is failing in. Do you think he'd like it if, say, you did the same thing as he is doing? Nope. He is wrong. Making you feel bad for what he is doing...is sad. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Spectre Posted November 30, 2013 Share Posted November 30, 2013 So if I understand, he has the chance to like pictures of you AND other girls right? And he is only liking other girls, but not you? Yeah, you have a right to be pissed. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
crederer Posted December 1, 2013 Share Posted December 1, 2013 I never understood why liking a photo on facebook ever upset people. What goes through ones mind about that that makes them angry? I just don't get it. If your bf liked a pic of a family member or of someones dinner that they uploaded, would that upset you too? Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted December 1, 2013 Share Posted December 1, 2013 If your BF was doing a better job making you feel cherished, he could like every picture on Instagram & it wouldn't bother you in the slightest. You may be insecure but he's making it worse not better. What does that say about how he feels about you? 2 Link to post Share on other sites
veggirl Posted December 1, 2013 Share Posted December 1, 2013 You both sound very immature. How old are you guys? liking random photos of 1/2 naked girls is stupid and I wouldn't wanna date a guy like that. but your "word vomit" needs to be dealt with, if you are upset about what he is doing why cant you approach it maturely and calmly? you are being passive aggressive. Link to post Share on other sites
Spectre Posted December 2, 2013 Share Posted December 2, 2013 I never understood why liking a photo on facebook ever upset people. What goes through ones mind about that that makes them angry? I just don't get it. If your bf liked a pic of a family member or of someones dinner that they uploaded, would that upset you too? I guess it comes down to context: why did you like the picture? Since I'm pretty sure every time you like a picture, the person is notified that you did. Liking a picture of a family isn't exactly the same as liking pictures of other girls. I also find it weird he had the opportunity to "like" some of his gf's pics, but never did? I find that weird as a guy. Like even if there was nothing in the picture that was truly awesome going on, just the fact it's a picture of my gf might be enough for me to throw her a like lol. It's weird he liked other girls. I don't know, I guess I'd have to see the pictures he actually "liked" to truly judge. However, if I'm single and I'm on a Facebook and I see a chick "liking" pictures of me, I'm going to think maybe..just maybe she might think I'm cute and be interested? This is why I do not really use Facebook at all. I think I have an account I never use, I had to set it up because friends of mind were telling me to do so because I needed to have an account in order to view certain peoples pages..and they were people from our past so I did it just to see I guess. It was supposed to be something really hilarious, but it was just..meh. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
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