Author Conners Posted December 3, 2013 Author Share Posted December 3, 2013 Why would you care if he smokes weed? It's not like he's getting drunk or snorting oxycodone. He had a rough day at work, and wanted to relax, smoke some weed, and see you. Then you lay into him when he's already down. Not cool. He told me to come over and he was basically asleep because he was so stoned. Why would I go out of my way to hang out with him if he's gonna fall asleep within 5 minutes haha Also I had surgery a while ago and was prescribed some oxycodone. He asked if he could have some before we went clubbing for a bit of a kick. Totally irrelevant but it's funny you mentioned that. Link to post Share on other sites
ThatMan Posted December 3, 2013 Share Posted December 3, 2013 Would you consider attending a codependents anonymous meeting? Link to post Share on other sites
OpheliaSong Posted December 3, 2013 Share Posted December 3, 2013 He is who he is and though he has tried to change it, he obviously is only doing it for you. I do not know why women get boyfriends then try to change them. I don't like pot and won't date a guy who does it, but if you knew and participated with him then changed your mind on it,, you are trying to control him. You both need to move on to other people who you do not have to change for. Link to post Share on other sites
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