cugo999 Posted December 31, 2004 Share Posted December 31, 2004 Hey guys I need help. I have decided to have a date with a nother woman after things seem not to be working with my ex. I have not seen this gal, she has not seen me either but we have talked over the phone couple of times. She has agreed to come n hang out with at my house this friday. I know so many guys have talked to her and got nothing out of it. I just wanted to be fun and different with her. I need a first date advice from this forum. How to handle this date and make it as fun as possible. What I should do and not do. By the way she will spend at my place. Please I need help. It is been long since I had a new date like this. I was with my ex for 3 years so it kinda strange to have a new person in my life. Thanks for your responces Link to post Share on other sites
missopinionated Posted January 1, 2005 Share Posted January 1, 2005 Did you say you were having a blind date and that your first date is at your house and that she's spending the night there??? And did you say that lots of guys have tried and she hasn't 'put out' for them? Well.... if that's what you've said, you're off to a rocky start. It is imprudent of both of you to have a blind date in your house. NEUTRAL ground! Take the woman somewhere that you can have a quiet meal/drink together. It is imprudent of both of you to have a sleep over on the first date. That is crazy. What if you find out you can't stand each other??? Here's the bottom line: she's likely just as nervous as you are. She probably wants to have a nice, fun evening with no pressure and no expectations. If you've already been talking to her, why don't you do a bit of research about what's happening in your town/city that night then call her and run a couple of suggestions by her? I hope you'll find some other solution for the sleeping part of the night. Do you really know her well enought to let a stranger stay in your house overnight? Link to post Share on other sites
Curt Posted January 1, 2005 Moderators Share Posted January 1, 2005 I am sorta troubled by this post too. I'm with opinionated on this one. (Hoping that getting her to "put out" is not the only thing on the dude's mind, though ) Curt Link to post Share on other sites
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