ColaBucks Posted December 1, 2013 Share Posted December 1, 2013 So me and this guy have been flirting for a good few months but just lately he has started to give out more and more mixed signals, one being that he, in nearly all conversations we have now, on Facebook anyway, he mentions a celebrity that he finds hot or whatever, and its always a new one each time. If he genuinely liked someone else, like a real life person he knows, surely he would talk about them rather than some celebrity he'll never know or get to be with? Whenever he brings up a celebrity, or goes on about how hot they are anyway, I just change the subject. He also sometimes sends me pictures of himself topless with a caption like 'I thought you might appreciate this', which I do, and I say so, I'll say how hot he looks or something of that nature, and the same thing will go if I change my Facebook profile picture, he'll message me and say he likes it rather than clicking the 'like' button, which is usually what he does with his other female friends when he wants to. I don't really know what to do about this, whether he likes me or not, any insight would be appreciated, thank you Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted December 1, 2013 Share Posted December 1, 2013 You have to find a way to take this off FB & into real life. Link to post Share on other sites
Author ColaBucks Posted December 1, 2013 Author Share Posted December 1, 2013 We live relatively far away from each other, and our work schedules clash a bit... Link to post Share on other sites
Spectre Posted December 2, 2013 Share Posted December 2, 2013 How far away do you live? What are you truly expecting from this relationship? Online relationships can be hard, and if this guy is trying to make you jealous it means he is playing games with you. Which, since online relationships can be hard already, making it worse with that behavior just tells me he isn't worth it. Are you planning to meet him? Has this ever been brought up? If this is just something where you flirt with a dude just to help your self esteem or something(which I am not saying is bad) then just don't worry about and it and continue doing what you are doing. If you expect anything more out of this? It's time to have a talk with him. Link to post Share on other sites
Vogeltron Posted December 2, 2013 Share Posted December 2, 2013 (edited) Seriously you like a guy who sends you Photos of himself? I honestly have never met a real man who take photos of himself or has them taken of him. Let alone goes on Facebook and does that kinda crap. Sounds like a guy who rather look at himself in the mirror. Aka big ass loser. Honestly any guy over the age of 22-23 that has a facebook page is a loser. WTF is wrong with America. Men in this country are rapidly becoming chicks. I would start by sending him a message the next time he send you a photo like that. Telling him that where you come from real men do not take photos of themselves like this. Did you meant to send this to your boyfriend? Edited December 2, 2013 by Vogeltron Link to post Share on other sites
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