Being an introvert and heartbroken at the same time

[Els]

Sorry to hear that, op.

 

I honestly feel that it's harder for introverts to go through break ups than it is for extroverts. Whereas extroverts tend to have a larger circle of friends and a more extensive social support system, introverts tend to only have a few very close people around them, of whom their ex would be one. So paradoxically, they would feel the pain of being "alone" more.

 

Hang in there.

[gabgab]

I had given up my apartment to move in with him. The day before I move in he tells me "I love you, but I'm not in love with you. I want to make you happy but fail to do that because it conflicts with how I feel" (funny how I have that memorized)

 

I still moved in because I had nowhere to go and all my stuff is here at his house. He is decent to me, nice and is going to let me stay as long as I need too. But I haven't had the chance to heal since I see him every day and last night we cuddled in bed together.

 

He is a commitment phobe I think and doesn't know what he wants. He said he is an extrovert though. I am not. I guess that's a huge difference. But I always thought of him to be an introvert because he doesn't do much and only has a handful of close friends. He likes his alone time just as much as I do. He's not a party person and doesn't go out on Friday nights. He likes to do things by himself a lot and he is always deep in his mind. Anyways...

 

 

Im sorry to be mean but you are pathetic. People on this board have given you loads of good advice in your other threads and you said you understood when everyone told you to ignore him and to not do anything physical, yet you go ahead and do it anyway. I think you honestly like being miserable