secret admirer Posted December 2, 2013 Share Posted December 2, 2013 As a guy, playing games really pisses me off. It isn't appealing to me and I find it frustrating when you put your personality on the line, present yourself as who you really are, and end up being led into an endless loop where you can't quite obtain that girl you always wanted. I've met this girl in class, and we exchanged looks, met after class and had a couple laughs as I met her friends. I got her number, we start texting, and everything seems fantastic... until I notice she really doesn't seem interested in anything about me. She never asks questions about me and finds anything I do not impressive or quickly changes the subjects. Unbelievably she still texts back after hours upon hours of texts. I hardly ever begin the texts, and I am the one to leave the conversation. I even tried to push her away by saying "try to not text me for a few days ;)" and wanted to see if she would come back. After one day, she gave up and started texting me again. Then she begins to brings up other guys that are said to be funny, annoying, etc. and shows me their texts of what they said and how funny it is. She even goes as far as point out "attractive celebrities." I personally don't care, so I either change subjects or I just stop texting her. Recently she insulted me, so I completely stopped texting her and I'm pretty sure she understands I just dropped the conversation because of it. She's still trying to initiate texts, but should I? There's no "sorry about that" or anything, so I'm assuming shes using me. We do insult each other a little for the giggles, but this one was a little too far. She also seems to be confident and too comfortable to actually be attracted to me, because every text seems like its between two friends. Maybe thats a good thing, I dont know. I try to make her say she likes me, but it isnt direct and seems to be playing hard to get. Ugh, at least she laughs at my jokes... So from a girl-warped mind, I can't fully see if she really likes me, or is just playing games with me. Insight is what I'm looking for, and brutally honest comments are appreciated. And I'm sorry for writing so long. It's just that when I begin, its hard to stop xD Link to post Share on other sites
Khyla Posted December 2, 2013 Share Posted December 2, 2013 she really doesn't seem interested in anything about me. She never asks questions about me and finds anything I do not impressive or quickly changes the subjects She sounds self-centered, and not really serious or interested in anyone but herself and the number of friends she can aquire and text to. just my opinion. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author secret admirer Posted December 2, 2013 Author Share Posted December 2, 2013 I agree with you. She does have the characteristics that make her believe she is the center of the universe. That's why I don't want to be orbiting around her anymore if you catch my drift. Link to post Share on other sites
scubasteve Posted December 2, 2013 Share Posted December 2, 2013 At least you weren't the rebound guy Link to post Share on other sites
todreaminblue Posted December 2, 2013 Share Posted December 2, 2013 I agree with you. She does have the characteristics that make her believe she is the center of the universe. That's why I don't want to be orbiting around her anymore if you catch my drift. list the characteristics of centre of the universe.......self centred maybe but centre of the universe....nah....besides the fact you pushed her away why are you not being direct and playing darts with her......is it to protect you who you regard as special....why not say how you really feel...deb Link to post Share on other sites
Neville107 Posted December 6, 2013 Share Posted December 6, 2013 Secret Admirer - This girl is using you and is nothing more than an attention whore. She sees you as a chump, treats like a chump, and knows you're a chump because you keep coming back for more abuse. She has you around to feed her ego. Solution: Cut off all contact with her. Go no contact. Delete her number so she can't text you, don't respond to her in any manner - in person or online. Go with the mind set that she is dead to you. Let the other guys she talks about feed her ego - let them be the chump. Find yourself someone who likes you and is interested in YOU. She isn't and no amount of placating her will change that. P.S. I 'm betting she was really cute too - It sucks when that happens. Link to post Share on other sites
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