Khyla Posted December 2, 2013 Share Posted December 2, 2013 would you consider dating or having a girlfriend who is now, or ever worked as an adult webcam model? Or worked as a nude artist's model? Link to post Share on other sites
theothersully Posted December 2, 2013 Share Posted December 2, 2013 would you consider dating or having a girlfriend who is now, or ever worked as an adult webcam model? Or worked as a nude artist's model? Is this some kind of trick question??? I'd probably be *more* interested if I knew this! 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Art_Critic Posted December 2, 2013 Share Posted December 2, 2013 only after seeing her at work ... no... When I was single I would not date someone who worked in the field of webcam porn.. The nude model.. sure...I would date someone who was an artists model 1 Link to post Share on other sites
LBlanc Posted December 2, 2013 Share Posted December 2, 2013 would you consider dating or having a girlfriend who is now, or ever worked as an adult webcam model? Or worked as a nude artist's model? now this would depend whether she does boy-girl "thing" on cam...if she does, better to just skip it...on the other hand if its more like stripping then i'd say you're one lucky bastard!!! :D:D Link to post Share on other sites
Author Khyla Posted December 2, 2013 Author Share Posted December 2, 2013 now this would depend whether she does boy-girl "thing" on cam...if she does, better to just skip it...on the other hand if its more like stripping then i'd say you're one lucky bastard!!! :D:D ok, so you'd be ok with teasing, talking dirty, "full exposure", playing, and maybe with other girls, as long as no guys were involved? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
LBlanc Posted December 2, 2013 Share Posted December 2, 2013 yup...its all an act man. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Khyla Posted December 2, 2013 Author Share Posted December 2, 2013 Is this some kind of trick question??? I'd probably be *more* interested if I knew this! LOL. There are guys who feel very insecure, don't want other guys pleasuring themselves watchin their girl, or are afraid of aquaintences discovering.... Link to post Share on other sites
Melrapuo Posted December 2, 2013 Share Posted December 2, 2013 If the girl's upfront about it all, I wouldn't see any problem with it. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Salvatore85 Posted December 2, 2013 Share Posted December 2, 2013 If we got along why would her job matter? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
lollipopspot Posted December 2, 2013 Share Posted December 2, 2013 IF you watch adult webcam models, you shouldn't have a problem dating one. It would be kind of ****ty and dehumanizing if you were a supporter of webams but you didn't think the participants were o.k. to know or love as people, kind of like creating a class of untouchables. 4 Link to post Share on other sites
theothersully Posted December 2, 2013 Share Posted December 2, 2013 LOL. There are guys who feel very insecure, don't want other guys pleasuring themselves watchin their girl, or are afraid of aquaintences discovering.... You know all the weird talk about alpha and beta guys here? This is very weak of a guy if he thinks like that, IMO. He's got to man up on this kind of thing. Honestly? If I were in this situation (and I kinda have been...lol) I would be appearing in the next episode... ha ha ha It's nothing to be insecure about. More like something to have some fun with! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
SincereOnlineGuy Posted December 2, 2013 Share Posted December 2, 2013 would you consider dating or having a girlfriend who is now, or ever worked as an adult webcam model? Or worked as a nude artist's model? Popular answers to this one have evolved through the years as what was once a remote and even-more-taboo means of income has opened itself up to random college kids who just need a bit of extra spending money on the sly. These days webcam models can easily block viewers from their home state or area, while encountering online thousands upon thousands of could-be paying customers and knowing solid and stealthy paychecks every couple of weeks. The models are becoming much more mainstream than were the typical kinksters who comprised webcam models in the infancy of the internet. Technological improvements have really benefited potential models and they do seem to be swarming in record numbers, especially since the downturn of the economy a few years back. So yeah, I would side with the "yes" group on this one, and before long it will be a standard possibility in many, many circles. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
OnlyHonesty Posted December 2, 2013 Share Posted December 2, 2013 You know all the weird talk about alpha and beta guys here? This is very weak of a guy if he thinks like that, IMO. He's got to man up on this kind of thing. Honestly? If I were in this situation (and I kinda have been...lol) I would be appearing in the next episode... ha ha ha It's nothing to be insecure about. More like something to have some fun with! Since when does manning up have anything to do with having a different opinion about something? So a guy who discourages his gf for her exposing herself to hundreds or possibly thousands of strange men and / or women online is weak? Do you know how foolish that sounds? As far as I am concerned, part of manning up is looking out for your gf's best interests, encouraging her to respect her body, boundaries, self esteem and sexuality in a way that empowers her physically, mentally and spiritually. If camming was something the innerself had no problems with and self esteem was not impacted in some way, this thread wouldn't exist. It is clear that somewhere within, the OP questions herself concerning her actions. It sounds like the camming is serving as an ego boost, a distraction and gives them pleasure but all of that feeds more of the physical part of us rather than the spiritual part. I believe it is that part that leaves the OP with questions. Given what she has been through, I would say it is completely understandable but lets not pretend it hasn't left her with questions and uncertainties about the whole thing. When you do something that rests well with both sides of your being, there are no questions. Just because you may see something differently to another guy, it doesn't mean it is weak. What you say just comes across as a kind of shaming attempt. If I am to invest time with a woman who I am to respect, introduce to others important to me and appreciate the exclusivity of her feminine shape, figure and other attractive traits, I would very much appreciate that the whole world hadn't already seen it. That's not insecurity, that's a simple preference and people are free to do as they wish. Just because so many appear to have less boundaries and may have forgotten the importance of honour, self respect and moral fiber, it doesn't mean everyone else is the same. Perhaps you should revisit the various definitions of manning up rather than the common shamming attempt definitions. 5 Link to post Share on other sites
OnlyHonesty Posted December 2, 2013 Share Posted December 2, 2013 IF you watch adult webcam models, you shouldn't have a problem dating one. It would be kind of ****ty and dehumanizing if you were a supporter of webams but you didn't think the participants were o.k. to know or love as people, kind of like creating a class of untouchables. A lot of people watch adult movies, it doesn't mean they would search for a porn star to date or marry. I believe there is an element of fantasy that is a part of watching such material and not everyone wants to make that a reality. Link to post Share on other sites
Imported Posted December 3, 2013 Share Posted December 3, 2013 You know all the weird talk about alpha and beta guys here? This is very weak of a guy if he thinks like that, IMO. He's got to man up on this kind of thing. Honestly? If I were in this situation (and I kinda have been...lol) I would be appearing in the next episode... ha ha ha It's nothing to be insecure about. More like something to have some fun with! I disagree. OP, I'd have a really difficult time with it. Although one of the coolest chick I have met was a cam model. I liked her fine and have lots of respect for her. If we had stayed together for much longer than we did, I would have diffnitely tried to get her to find a different job. And to answer your question, it really depends on the girl.......and timing. If I knew before hand, I'd sidestep her and go for a different girl. Link to post Share on other sites
reddragon588 Posted December 3, 2013 Share Posted December 3, 2013 What is her personality like? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
bubbaganoosh Posted December 3, 2013 Share Posted December 3, 2013 would you consider dating or having a girlfriend who is now, or ever worked as an adult webcam model? Or worked as a nude artist's model? Nude artist's model and internet porn are two different things. As for me, I want to date a woman with a little more pride in herself. If she has to perform sex acts on the internet to make a buck, then IMO she doesn't have much going for herself but to each his own and to any one who would want to date someone in that line of work, then fine by me. I won't condemn them. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Gemini47 Posted December 3, 2013 Share Posted December 3, 2013 Khyla, This is a very subjective question to answer bc it's always going to depend on the guy in question. Some won't pay any mind, others will... I wouldn't let it affect me if it was a somewhat mild mannered web cam, if it was some crazy freaky-deaky stuff that you were getting into on the regular than I would probably stay away. I used to not care what she would do for a living. However, a few years ago I met a girl that turned out to be a stripper. I didn't mind and actually thought it was a cool and new experience for me. She then came up to visit me and told me that while I was sleeping she helped to clean my place! I then thought that was odd bc I CLEANED MY WHOLE PLACE before she came over. Sure enough when she left I noticed video games, movies, and other things were missing. I'm a bit more apprehensive now. Link to post Share on other sites
CarrieT Posted December 3, 2013 Share Posted December 3, 2013 would you consider dating or having a girlfriend who is now, or ever worked as an adult webcam model? Or worked as a nude artist's model? There is a HUGE difference between a webcam model and a nude artist's model. I have been a nude model for private artists and for classrooms. There is no sexualization and the artists are there to WORK. The models do not engage in discussion and are paid to sit there and not move whatsoever. A webcam model is completely and wholly about the sexualization of her body -- often egging men on for private sessions for more money. There is masturbation and engagement of others on a sexual level. Link to post Share on other sites
BOREDouttaMymind Posted December 5, 2013 Share Posted December 5, 2013 Nope. im a confident guy but it would make my relationship strained at times. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Khyla Posted December 6, 2013 Author Share Posted December 6, 2013 ... As for me, I want to date a woman with a little more pride in herself. If she has to perform sex acts on the internet to make a buck, then IMO she doesn't have much going for herself I respect your OPINION and feelings, But to state that these women lack pride in themselves, is your own subjective view. The models I know have more pride and self-estem than a hell of a lot of other people I know. And they don't HAVE to do anything they dont want to, or anything they don't really and truly enjoy doing! I can say I totally LOVE what I'm doing and wish I could spend more of my time doing it, even if I'm not making hundreds of dollars an hour like some of them. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Khyla Posted December 6, 2013 Author Share Posted December 6, 2013 I used to not care what she would do for a living. However, a few years ago I met a girl that turned out to be a stripper. I didn't mind and actually thought it was a cool and new experience for me. She then came up to visit me and told me that while I was sleeping she helped to clean my place! I then thought that was odd bc I CLEANED MY WHOLE PLACE before she came over. Sure enough when she left I noticed video games, movies, and other things were missing. I'm a bit more apprehensive now. WOW, that sucks! Link to post Share on other sites
Amaury Posted December 10, 2013 Share Posted December 10, 2013 As long as she isn't doing anything with a man or has clients who she talks to on a personal level like him having her phone # or reaching her outside of "work" I wouldn't mind, plus we would have to do a session online so that I can be reassured thay they all know I'm the only one hitting it lol 1 Link to post Share on other sites
FrankieFrank Posted December 11, 2013 Share Posted December 11, 2013 (edited) would you consider dating or having a girlfriend who is now, or ever worked as an adult webcam model? Or worked as a nude artist's model? If it happened years ago? Probably. If it stopped fairly recently? Probably not. If it still goes on? Hell no. Edited December 11, 2013 by FrankieFrank Link to post Share on other sites
jimloveslips Posted December 19, 2013 Share Posted December 19, 2013 would you consider dating or having a girlfriend who is now, or ever worked as an adult webcam model? Or worked as a nude artist's model? How'd I miss this? Did she (this hypothetical, laviscious, licentious, libidinous, naughty girl) only ever do solo work? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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