Confusion_Reigns Posted December 2, 2013 Share Posted December 2, 2013 I've lived with this for a long time. the abuse. things I wouldn't have termed 'abuse' in the past I can clearly see as actually being abusive towards me. Really, I've opened my eyes to the reality of this situation and stopped trying to sugar coat it for myself. So this new thought that's come into my mind is this... I've done a lot of soul searching and have been talking with friends/family...and this is a new thought....I have done so much for the well-being and health of this family...and for us as a couple...I am no expert but I found resources. I have reached out to others for help, guidance, support...and I literally knew nothing about these things...so I know for a fact that there is a ton of information out there to HELP and to SUPPORT and for personal growth.... It's not only for me to find, it's available to everyone. EVERYONE who has an interest to understand, to learn...and he...my husband...has never once picked up a book or surfed the internet for this info... he may say he has but if he had then there are two reasons for no change 1) he hasn't done any research at all and is lying to me or 2) has no intention of implementing any of the things he's read...in either case, his comfort is more in THIS place than facing the hard things to get him to a healthier place and therefore get us to a better place... no real question just a new thought I wanted to share...it seems like such a simple idea that I have been refusing to acknowledge...and it's almost feels a bit like waking up in a way... 2 Link to post Share on other sites
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