NoMoreJerks Posted December 11, 2013 Share Posted December 11, 2013 Yes but you are a guy and anything involving mistrust and disrespect, women are expected to put up with more because "guys will be guys." No woman can use their biology or nature as an excuse...its a real double standard that exists. Women are supposed to be more sacrificial than men and ignore their egos more than men. I think whether you are a guy or girl, having naked pics of your exes is a dealbreaker, unless they genuinely forgot they were there. Don't think that's the case with the OP's guy...what man would hand his gf a drive with tons of pics of naked exes without thinking "oh wait, I should delete those in case she finds them!" I doubt he "forgot" they were on there. Believe it or not, my ex even shared his exes' naked pictures with me... :S I am sure he's doing the same with mine now, with his next victim. These types are psychopaths. Link to post Share on other sites
NoMoreJerks Posted December 11, 2013 Share Posted December 11, 2013 wait...so after he showed you his ex's naked pictures...you still thought it would be a good idea to send him naked pictures... lmao..wow I had sent them before he showed me his exes' pics. Link to post Share on other sites
ThatMan Posted December 11, 2013 Share Posted December 11, 2013 Oh I agree. But the fact that men constantly use "nature" and "biology" in their excuses and women don't shows there is a definite double standard. The US is still a patriarchy and women are held to higher standards behaviorally and character-wise than men. When it comes to shallow, selfish, disrespectful behavior and getting excused for it, men have it better. There are no "nature" or "biology" excuses for women, even though they have a nature and have biological tendencies like men do. There is no phrase that justifies us like "girls will be girls" and "hey shes just being a girl" or "girls will do that"....they don't exist. What I've learned is to focus less on the 'golden standard' and focus more on anecdotal experiences. I'm not concerned with the excuses other women make. I'm not even concerned for society at large when pursing intimate relationships. I'm only interested in the opinions from the one woman I do care about. You aren't trying to have a relationship with ALL men, right? Although unfair societal establishments seem important to you, personal relationships are a different matter entirely. There are always exceptions to any rule and the sort of person you're searching for exists out there. So focus on just one person at a time or else you'll find yourself lost in the greater picture. The moment a man displays that nasty disrespectful behavior you can ditch him for somebody better. You deserve better than mistreatment. Link to post Share on other sites
crederer Posted December 11, 2013 Share Posted December 11, 2013 Oh I agree. But the fact that men constantly use "nature" and "biology" in their excuses and women don't shows there is a definite double standard. The US is still a patriarchy and women are held to higher standards behaviorally and character-wise than men. When it comes to shallow, selfish, disrespectful behavior and getting excused for it, men have it better. There are no "nature" or "biology" excuses for women, even though they have a nature and have biological tendencies like men do. There is no phrase that justifies us like "girls will be girls" and "hey shes just being a girl" or "girls will do that"....they don't exist. Sure, whatever you say. Link to post Share on other sites
gabgab Posted December 12, 2013 Share Posted December 12, 2013 You aren't trying to have a relationship with ALL men, right? Although unfair societal establishments seem important to you, personal relationships are a different matter entirely. There are always exceptions to any rule and the sort of person you're searching for exists out there. So focus on just one person at a time or else you'll find yourself lost in the greater picture. The moment a man displays that nasty disrespectful behavior you can ditch him for somebody better. You deserve better than mistreatment. Ahhhh...see but women have to search for "exceptions" in society to find a male who isnt disrespectful and less caring. Its harder for us in a patriarchal society. Link to post Share on other sites
Debanked Posted December 12, 2013 Share Posted December 12, 2013 Oh I agree. But the fact that men constantly use "nature" and "biology" in their excuses and women don't shows there is a definite double standard. PMS, biological clock ticking, menopause. Yeah, never ever used as an excuse for anything! Bubble burst. Link to post Share on other sites
gabgab Posted December 12, 2013 Share Posted December 12, 2013 PMS, biological clock ticking, menopause. Yeah, never ever used as an excuse for anything! Bubble burst. Nope. Are any of those excuses POSITIVE? Nope, they arent the same. If a guy is an ass hes just a guy no biggie. If a woman is a bitch she is a BITCH it aint no biggie, but yeah, shes a bitch. There are no "neutral" nature excuses for women. Link to post Share on other sites
Elias33 Posted December 12, 2013 Share Posted December 12, 2013 Ahhhh...see but women have to search for "exceptions" in society to find a male who isnt disrespectful and less caring. Its harder for us in a patriarchal society. You seem so bitter in every single post you make. I hope you work things out. Good luck Link to post Share on other sites
jonny walker Posted December 17, 2013 Share Posted December 17, 2013 I think he is not cheating on you if he wants to he can delete the fotos from usb but he doesn't.all i can tell you is that he wants to make u intemate about love making and wants to have sex wid u lolol Link to post Share on other sites
Untouchable_Fire Posted December 17, 2013 Share Posted December 17, 2013 According to him, porn has always been "educational". Go really fast and blow your load on her face. Thats pretty much everything porn teaches. Link to post Share on other sites
Untouchable_Fire Posted December 17, 2013 Share Posted December 17, 2013 Oh I agree. But the fact that men constantly use "nature" and "biology" in their excuses and women don't shows there is a definite double standard. The US is still a patriarchy and women are held to higher standards behaviorally and character-wise than men. When it comes to shallow, selfish, disrespectful behavior and getting excused for it, men have it better. There are no "nature" or "biology" excuses for women, even though they have a nature and have biological tendencies like men do. There is no phrase that justifies us like "girls will be girls" and "hey shes just being a girl" or "girls will do that"....they don't exist. Yeah you just keep talking crap until the check comes. Men and women have different situations and each must learn to deal with their own challenges. Women use just as many excuses for bad behavior as men. Link to post Share on other sites
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