No Limit Posted December 8, 2013 Share Posted December 8, 2013 Sorry, but I think you should let him go. Even if he's one of those guys who aren't good at communicating per internet, many of the things he wrote in just that one conversation you posted isn't something a good boyfriend, not even a good friend should ever write to you. And just because he's all nice when you face him doesn't mean that he can behave like a total idiot in every other situation. He appears to be frustrated in real life, he indicates it himself by writing that his music programme makes him feel like he achieved something. He better look out that it doesn't grow into an addiction, virtual life is no replacement for the real one and that makes it all the sadder that he's missing some great time he could be spending with you. But clearly his priorities are unstable. He wanted a job, and still doesn't have one. Doesn't even put effort into it. No offense, but that would never even make him a considerable husband in any realistic scenario. It's hard, but I'd say you suggest a period of no contact at all. If he feels anything for you, he'll make the first step after a while, if not, let go. It's not worth it, and trust me, you'll find a better boyfriend than he is anytime. I've never heard of a BF not putting effort into his relationship, or at least not in a scenario where it ended smoothly... Best of luck. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
AlexiaBrinn Posted December 9, 2013 Share Posted December 9, 2013 choose with your heart. Ask yourself if you see yourself by his side 5 years from now. If not then go before you waste your valuable fertile years on the wrong dude 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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