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Uncharitable or un-generous friend


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[sIZE=3][FONT=Times New Roman]This is a bad sign ofcharacter I feel. I have been hurt by acausal physical relationship with a man and another girlfriend who turned jealous andabusive. So I am looking out for myselfat the moment.[/FONT][/sIZE]

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[sIZE=3][FONT=Times New Roman]I have been so disappointed by ‘A’ as Ithought she was great. She never buys around of drinks, even though when they are being bought for her she says shewill by the next. I have seen her do thiswith my friends and she did it again to me the other night, even though Iwaited after asking if she wanted another. [/FONT][/sIZE]

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[sIZE=3][FONT=Times New Roman]She does this knowingly and cunningly. She is a corporate lawyer and knows I don’t earnallot. On top of this she never has cigarettes and always asks for one off me. Shealso mentioned she had gone to parties and never invited me whereas she had initially. I am very charitable and generous. Maybepeople like her take advantage of this. Ialways tell her about events as I like my friends to be around me to share theexperience. I just feel very takenadvantage of and so disappointed. [/FONT][/sIZE]

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[sIZE=3][FONT=Times New Roman]I am lucky to have friends who hold thesame values so I have good benchmarks to compare with. [/FONT][/sIZE]

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[sIZE=3][FONT=Times New Roman]My view is not to let her get away with itagain and softly nudge her about it next time so she is alerted to it. [/FONT][/sIZE]

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[sIZE=3][FONT=Times New Roman]I will also distance myself from thefriendship and start the year trying to meet new people.[/FONT][/sIZE]

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[sIZE=3][FONT=Times New Roman] Iwould like to hear other people’s thoughts on this.[/FONT][/sIZE]

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