If you dump someone because they are cheating on you, are you the dumper or dumpee?

[headinthecloud]

If you've been cheated on then breaking up with the cheater is essentially just saving face at that point...you're not really "dumping" the cheater, your hand was forced by their actions, they essentially betrayed you and the relationship...you basically can just walk away from it at that point for your own good.

 

In a way you've already been dumped by the cheater knowing the consequences of cheating...but if you decide to to stay....well that's a whole other thread.

 

I agree. Beautifully said. Thank you, Ninja.

[SincereOnlineGuy]

If you dump someone because they are cheating on you, are you the dumper or dumpee?

 

 

You are very clearly the dump-ER... having been inspired to do so by somebody whose very actions were designed so as to inspire you to break-up with them (the very reason for that being) because they were too gutless to initiate that break-up themselves.