we held hands......does she like me then?

[uongy]

hey i saw my friend a couple of nights ago and i really like her but we have only been friends.we were at another friends house and were watching movies with the lights out.

 

now,as far as i know,she thinks we are just friends.there were just three of us and i ws on the sofa on my own when she came to sit down.she immediately lay down next to me and rested her head on me .as the night went on,i started to hold her tighter and got to hold her hand.i sqeezed her hand and she sqeezed my hand back.in no way did she object.

 

now,does that mean she likes me?when she had to leave,we had a customary hug but this time she hugged me real tight.am i reading too much into this?

 

i really like this girl.i cant stop thinking about her.im thinking i should invite her to mine just me and her and see what happens.

 

any opinions?

 

thanks people.happy new year.

uongy

[dyermaker]

She likes you.

 

You're welcome.

[_Saffy_]

female perspective.........shes interested......!

[kanga]

Yes, she's probably liking you. I've done the handhold thing before. The most telling sign, I think, is that she returned your squeeze. I've also done the avoiding the hand hold thing. I've been known to wiggle my hand out of the clasp of someone whom I don't like.

[lulu1]

she is intrested. dont rush, it may scare her. take it slow

good luck

[kanga]

"take it slow" - ?

 

anyone care to explain how slow is slow? how does one determine is someone is going slow or if that someone is just simply not really interested? can someone go so slow that the other person becomes uninterested?

 

i'm curious about people's thoughts on this.

[alphamale]

yes, she likes you as a friend, otherwise you'd already be her boyfriend.