yellowmaverick Posted December 9, 2013 Share Posted December 9, 2013 hi holly! I am 8 months pregnant too with MMs baby and like yours he also went back to his family and ask me not to contact him anymore. I got no job but good thing is that my family esp my mom is supportive of my decision to raise my baby alone... What I did for the past few months was just to take care of my health. Forget about ur MM. It's not worth running after them not even for the financial support. You'll only get depressed and that's not good for the baby. Start your life on your own. It's super hard but you can... just think about you n d baby. that's it! Disagree. Get the child support. If you don't need the money immediately, put it in an account for your child's education, wedding, first house, etc. He is entitled to it. Paying child support does not mean that the MM has the right to custody or visitation. They are two separate issues. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
imperfectangel Posted December 9, 2013 Share Posted December 9, 2013 Disagree. Get the child support. If you don't need the money immediately, put it in an account for your child's education, wedding, first house, etc. He is entitled to it. Paying child support does not mean that the MM has the right to custody or visitation. They are two separate issues. I've always said this too if you don't need/want the money save it for your baby's future also just b/c he's not interested now doesn't mean he won't be, once the baby is here everything could change Link to post Share on other sites
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