Bladedamage Posted January 23, 2001 Share Posted January 23, 2001 I've known this girl for about a year and in the last couple of weeks my feelings for her have grown quite strong. I was interested in her but never thought that she may feel the same way and didn't know how to take it any further. She is quite shy, very similar to me in that regard. Anyway, last week it did become apparent as she kept looking at me and when we were out with friends she stayed back after dinner to have a casual chat. It was just one of those scenarios when you can tell that someone is interested in you. I rang her up two days later and asked if she'd like to catch up for coffee (mid week - last week).She agreed. We had a fantastic time, which she confirmed and talked about anything and everything. When it was time to leave, I took her back to the car and asked her if she would like to go out again but this time we would do it as a date. She agreed. I left a two phone messages last week but didn't get in touch with her till the weekend. She then told me that she would like to remain friends. Obviously I was a little taken back by this, given the positive feedback I had during the previous week. She didn't want to go into it too much. I got the impression that she may have been hurt by a previous relationship and took the time from last week to the weekend to think about what I had asked her.I'm happy to be friends but my feelings towards her will be hard to deprive. My best friend thinks that she is just confused, probably for the reason I just explained. What should I do from here? Do I persist? or let time sort things out? Should I sit down with her and discuss the situation with her? I'm confused. Thanks for any feedback. Link to post Share on other sites
Rachel Posted January 23, 2001 Share Posted January 23, 2001 One time I was in a relationsip that I knew was ending, and I got asked out by a guy that I was interested in. I felt that it wasn't right for me to go out with him when things were just barely ending with the other guy. I made a sad excuse that I was busy and bla bla bla. Anyway, she is probably going through some stuff. They may be private and even her friends that think they know her may not know the real truth. I would wait a couple of months and ask again. She will probably be ready by then. Link to post Share on other sites
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