FalconsGUY Posted January 2, 2005 Share Posted January 2, 2005 heres my problem i have a really good friend i have known him for 3 to 4 years and we both have a friend (i will call her jess) see he likes jess but i like jess to should i back up or should i go for her she is good friends with both of us but not to be cocky but i have a better chance me and her just seem to click PLEASE HELP Link to post Share on other sites
LucreziaBorgia Posted January 2, 2005 Share Posted January 2, 2005 Talk honestly with your friend about it. Tell him how you feel and that you really want to ask her out. You should prepare yourself for one of the following scenarios: 1. Jess will refuse to date either of you, not wanting to disrupt the friendships you all have 2. Jess will date you, and you and your friend will part ways 3. Jess will date your friend, and you will part ways with Jess and her new boyfriend 4. You will decide that friendship will be more important and will let your friend and Jess date, and you'll be friends with the new couple 5. Your friend will decide that friendship will be more important and will let you and Jess date, and will be friends with you two as a couple You have to decide based on how you know these people, which of the scenarios is more likely and then take action according to what consequences you are willing to take. Link to post Share on other sites
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