whats my next move?

[uongy]

hey guys.happy new year.

ive known my friend Juila for three years and i really like her.to cut a long story short,i couldnt go after her because of circumstances meaning it was just not appropiate.but its ok now and i want to ask her out.

 

i saw her at a friends house a few nights ago.we were watching films for the night.now,when she arrived and sat down,she immediately came over to me and lay down,resting her head by me.she even ushered my other friend away from the sofa(just so it could be me and her )

 

as the night went on,i put my arm around her and then held hands with her.in fact,everytime i squeezed her hand(ie held it tighter)she would hold squeeze back.

i was even going to put my arms round her but she fell asleep lol.

anyway,when she had to leave,she gave me a hugand it was much tighter than usual.

 

now,im guessing she likes me from that(well....i actually had to ask in a post to be honest )

 

so naturally,my next move was to ask her if she had any free time in the near future but she said she would be busy in the coming week.now,i dont think she has been scared away(she was the one that text me last night)but im not sure what i should do now.

 

when would be a good time to ask her again and when we do meet again,should i make a move?

 

any help thanks.

[dc-fan211]

alright buddy, what you have to do is do a bit of an analysis.

Was she feeling particularly happy that day that might have induced her to be more friendly to everyone? Is she generally an open person?

 

This is your judgement. If it were me (cuz im a wuss), id have another "friends" night with her to conclude any suspicions.

 

If you feel confident that she likes you, here's what to remember.

1. First of all, all girls are different, so there is no fool proof plan. lol sorry

2. If you're not the most confident guy, you're going to have to play "mysterious". that means don't be a butt-kissing, obseqious and most of all desperate dork. Just talk to her and pop an easy going question like "hey, what are you doing this saturday?" and then ask her if she wants to do something with you. If all goes well, she'll ask you "are you asking me on a date?" and depending on how she words it you can either answer it with a joke, chris rock style, like "no, I just want to feed you". or you could just say, yes. haha

3. If you're not a wise-ass pansy like me, girls certainly do not mind confident guys. Just straight up ask her out. It doesnt matter when. In fact if you asked her out that very night shed most likely be impressed by your confidence.

 

The bottom line is "WOMEN ARE WEIRD". im sorry, but there's not doubting it. We can't read their minds. and there's no formula cuz every girl is different. If she likes you, you're in no matter. If she's wavering, you gotta play your cards right. If she doesn't like you, it doesnt matter what you do - you're screwed.

 

GOOD LUCK BUD! let me know how it turns out!