missliljesslynn Posted January 2, 2005 Share Posted January 2, 2005 Hello, My boyfriend is leaving for Iraq in less then 2 weeks.....I am totally haten this more than n e thing but there's nothing i can do about it.......the only thing that is bothering me right now is that we just got this computer and all he seems to want to do is go into chat rooms and talk to a bunch of girls..........so u find this one bit wrong or am i the wrong one.....i mean i'd rather him be spending time with me than doing something that i wouldnt want him to do i dont talk to a bunch of guys or n e thing.........i just want to spend time with him were supposed to get married in like a couple of days before he goes.......he is a great guy treats me good and everything i have no other complaints other than this internet ordeal what should i do or say to him help~!!!!!! jess Link to post Share on other sites
SoleMate Posted January 3, 2005 Share Posted January 3, 2005 I'm very sorry about the impending separation. But PLEASE don't marry him until his Internet chat hobby is dealt with. If he were ready, willing and able to marry you, he would not be interested in chatting with other girls, by definition. what should i do or say to him? "Darling, we have so little time left before you go. I'd like to make it special for you and really lavish you with lots of my attention and love. What would be the most enjoyable way to spend this time together?" Link to post Share on other sites
Author missliljesslynn Posted January 4, 2005 Author Share Posted January 4, 2005 HEY, TO ANSWER YOU BACK I HAVE TALKED TO HIM SINCE THEN, HE DID UNDERSTAND WHERE I WAS COMMING FROM, HE HAS BEEN IN ANY CHAT ROOMS, BUT HE DID SAY HE WAS TRYING TO JUST FIND PEOPLE TO TALK TO ON HERE SINCE NO ONE ELSE WAS ON, SO EVERYTHING IS GOOD, I'M GOING TO CALL THE PASTOR TOMORROW AND WERE GONNA GET MARRIED BEFORE HE GOES TO IRAQ. I'M SO SCARED FOR HIM I DONT WANT HIM TO GO, I HATE THIS MORE THAN ANYTHING AND THE BAD PART I HATE BEING IN THE HOUSE ALONE, I HATE TO BE ALONE PERIOD, AND ALSO I DONT HAVE MANY PEOPLE THAT I KNOW SO EITHER THAT I CAN SURROUND MYSELF WITH...........I DUNNO WHAT I AM GOING TO DO I CANT HANDLE IT REALLY Link to post Share on other sites
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