Unknownx33 Posted December 9, 2013 Share Posted December 9, 2013 hi I'm new here. So the backround: This year in April I was with my family on holiday. So far away from home. We were in a church. There I saw a man. I didn't thought more about him. But on the next day, I saw him again. He was our tourist guide. He always came to me and was so sweet. Then he asked me about my facebook account. I've NEVER been so happy. When I was at home again we text. Then we text on Whatsapp. Every day. And now I'm so sad. I have not seem him for half a year. But we text every day. I miss him so much, and he miss me too. Sometimes we skype. My parents know about him. They know how sad I am but they do nothing.. they said I must wait for next year.. I would do all to see him. I have again started to hurt myself. Every day I cry. My friends know it, my sister know it. But nobody is there for me.. I am so alone, I can not make it. I just want to be with him. He always say that we can make it and that everything will be fine.. but I still feel bad. So, thank you for reading it! I hope I'm not alone with this problem. Please give me an advice And sorry for my bad english, haha<3 Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted December 9, 2013 Share Posted December 9, 2013 You need to calm down. This level of attachment for a person you barely know is not healthy. You shouldn't be crying everyday or hurting yourself. I really hope you mean that you are upset every day & not that you are cutting or doing other destructive behaviors. For now, you can & should cherish the friendship you are building but under no circumstances should your life or your happiness revolve around this person. Get out. Do things. Join clubs. Go places. Be active & socialize with other people. Do not try to foster an exclusive relationship with this person at this stage of your life. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Unknownx33 Posted December 9, 2013 Author Share Posted December 9, 2013 #d0nnivain: Thank you very much! I try it. And jea, I mean cutting*, but thank's(: Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted December 9, 2013 Share Posted December 9, 2013 I am sorry to hear that it has gotten that bad. You have to tell your parents or a trusted teacher about the cutting. They can & will help you. Your health & safety are the most important. If you keep hurting yourself, you may not be well enough next year assuming that a meeting with this guy is even possible. Link to post Share on other sites
justwhoiam Posted December 10, 2013 Share Posted December 10, 2013 What's the aim of cutting yourself? Do you want to leave scars all over your body to scare most guys away, included to one you fell for? Start to think positive, start planning for your next trip. Ask him to come and see you. You could start to ask him what he sees for himself and his future, and see if he thinks of it with you. What are his intentions? Also, think of yourself as needing more than just one kind of love (you can't see it now, but it's true) or one single source of love. So have people around you. Go out. Share with friends. Enjoy the upcoming holidays. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Unknownx33 Posted December 10, 2013 Author Share Posted December 10, 2013 #d0nnivain and justwhoiam: Thank you very much! I am glad to hear your nice reply. I'll try it, thank uu 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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