for those who want ex back. this is what she did

[PainforGain]

so here is my story I have been with my highschool sweetheart for 15 years we have been that couple that everyone has thought would be together forever we grew up together we did everything together I met my wife at 17 and she was 15 years old we moved in a young age we've lived in many houses and everything was always great with us of course dating at such a young age we did have are hiccups here in there but that's just a natural cycle of a relationship growing up at a young age.in 2009 we decided to buy our first new home during that time I took a career change everything was perfect our new home was beautiful and both were very happy. I propose to my wife in 2009 around a year later one day during an argument my wife decided to leave and move in with her sister I was in shock I couldn't understand why my fiance of that time would simply up and leave and not try to work on anything. in my heart I would have worked on anything for herall she could say was that she was no longer happy and needed time when I first met my wife I was her first she had lost her virginity to me I did not lose my virginity to her I experience relationships much before her so when she separated from me I concluded thought this was because she believed that the grass was greener on the other side simply because she had never been with anyone else during the separation the first two months were the hardest there is simply no contact and if there was contacted was just simply about how we were going to organize the selling of the home in January I met a new girl through the new job which help me keep my mind off things I also found out my fiance had started dating as wellso both of us were dating and forgetting about each other I am NOT going to lie and say that I never thought about her I always will love my wifefrom January to April there was simply no contact with each other both of us went our own ways in May we decided it was time to sell the home during the selling of the home we had to get together to do certain things in order to sell it I had broken the relationship with the new girl off because it was getting too seriousas we sold our home we learned to hang out with one another once again it was during the month of June that we decided to date again because we realized we enjoyed each others company once againas we were dating I came to find out that my fiance during the separation had been and slept with for thatnow at first I was hurt by this news and then I took a step back and understood why someone would do that my wife was trying to find greener grass and she realized that the grass is not greener we both dated and I understood that both of us were human so I decided to put that behind me and to continue my life with my fiance we immediately moved back in together my wife then propose to me and said that she made a mistake and wanted to be with me for the rest of her life I gladly said yes to the proposal and we set a date for February 1st 2013 to get married during the planning of the wedding we also purchased a brand new home we got married in February 2013 and it was the most beautiful day of my life two months later we moved into our new home I thought point in time I felt like I was on top of the world iight reconciled with my highschool sweetheart we are now married and living in a homewhen we purchased our new home I was a bit worried simply because the first time we bought her home financial stress kicked in and that's when my wife decided to leave well I was right 8 months into having a new home my wife has now left again she states it has nothing to do with money but I think otherwise weeks before her telling me that she wanted a separation she was telling me how much in love she was with meso now I'm in a hard place I'm separated again out of the blue and my wife tells me that she thanks she no longer loves me we can't file for divorce because we never legally got married in Canada we got married in Mexico as a symbolic wedding we were going to go to the courthouse to get the paper signed but we decided to wait until I was finished school in January I am going back to school to finish final year to obtain by a truck licensethe reason I never signed the papers for the wedding was because I needed a student loan stupid memy heart is broken and I think to myself there's no way she is not in love with me we just got married 9 months ago and she was the one that proposed I try n think about reasons why she would do this could there be another man is she worried about her finances is she worried about the security of her future I don't know why she did this once again ironically the first time that she left was in October of 2011 and this time when she left it was in October of 2013 her friends and family think that she needs time and space but she tells me time and space will not do anything my friends and family are telling me to forget and leave her because if she did it once and then a second time she'll keep doing it to me but I'm finding it hard to listen to my friends and family because she is my wife and I took the house and I feel that I should fight for herfor now I will try the no contact to give her time and space and work on myself what do you guys think would you take her back after doing this twice or would you simply move on

[PainforGain]

My post was completed using android voice chat. That's why the gramme rad punctuation is poor :(

 

Sorru

[PainforGain]

Please disregard the grammar. The post was written using android voice chat

[Steadfast]

Your 'wife' (can't figure out if you actually married her or not) has already left you and cheated once, now she's left again. When a woman wants space, the translation is she wants to spend time with someone else.

 

That should tell you where you stand.

 

At this point she should be fighting for you, not the other way around. In serious relationships we make commitments and it must go both ways. If both aren't in it 100%, it'll fail. You cannot love enough for both people.

 

My suggestion is to never expect less than your willing to give. Tell her once more (just to makes sure) that you're willing, then let her go. If she's serious she'll stay. Now. Not later, when the new thing doesn't work out.

 

Find a keyboard and use it. Your original post was painful.