asbms18 Posted January 3, 2005 Share Posted January 3, 2005 WHen will I get rid off these feelings of revenge??? All I want is to inflict pain on my ex.He left me and the kids after 20 years.He is dating a ( former ) friend of mine , who is 20 years older than he is. I don't seem to feel as much hurt as i feel revenge. I keep fantasizing what I could do to hurt him. Mess up his car? Scratch it, spray -paint it etc.. I know it seems so childish but I want him to hurt. He is on probation and I also keep thinking what I could do to get him back in jail. It's been three months since he is gone and I still get worked up when I talk to other people about how he left. I want his current relationship to go sour , so that he gets a chance to be by himself and reflect what is happening! WHy would he even give up on his children? he is not even attempting to keep in touch with them.Doesn't even want custody at all! WHy ? Because I was expecting a fight for the children? I am so confused and still want revenge! Link to post Share on other sites
_Saffy_ Posted January 3, 2005 Share Posted January 3, 2005 anger management, and counselling, and learn to let go. dont sound like the type of guy one would want around anyhow. Link to post Share on other sites
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