tiki Posted January 3, 2005 Posted January 3, 2005 What are the rules for sex (with your spouse) in the BIBLE? No anal? Missionary only? Or does it even touch on that subject (surely it does)? It seems like I remember something about it though. Like you're supposed to be a little limited to what you should do with regards to sex with your spouse? Anyone know for sure? Is oral off-limits? Help me!
moimeme Posted January 3, 2005 Posted January 3, 2005 Actually, Jesus said you shouldn't get married at all. I wouldn't worry so much about sex and hurry up and divorce if I were you. "But those who are considered worthy of taking part in that age and in the resurrection from the dead will neither marry nor be given in marriage" Luke 20:33-35
Mr Spock Posted January 3, 2005 Posted January 3, 2005 You should ask Dyer-I think he memorized it. What DO they say about the bum sex Dyer? I think fellatio is still classified as some kind of Sodomy in Missisipi.....but that's state law-not bible. Anyways, why do you really care? Does the bible make you horny? I would think it's more effective as an erection wilter than a swift knee to the nuts. Or maybe you're looking for a way OUT of some activities?
Author tiki Posted January 3, 2005 Author Posted January 3, 2005 lol...definitely not looking for a way out. I'd just like to feel more confident in my actions. I'm working my way up to repenting for the 'pre-marital' sex and I'd like to do things close to the right way. Although, I'm not ready to give up giving my husband head or dabbling in anal sex. Even with the 'rhoids.
Mr Spock Posted January 3, 2005 Posted January 3, 2005 I'm working my way up to repenting for the 'pre-marital' sex and I'd like to do things close to the right way Oh tiki.....I hope someone rips that bible out of your hands and smacks you with it...... That's the MOST DEPRESSING thing I've read all day and I've been up for ages. I can't tell you if the BIBLE frowns on bum sex and blow jobs but I can tell you that quite a few churches do. Catholics especially, and maybe baptists too.
alphamale Posted January 3, 2005 Posted January 3, 2005 Originally posted by Mr Spock I can't tell you if the BIBLE frowns on bum sex and blow jobs but I can tell you that quite a few churches do. Catholics especially, and maybe baptists too. Oh yeah, oral and anal are strictly verboten in catholic faith cause neither leads to procreation. I guess facials would be out too. Oh ye of little faith, go forth and spread thy seed...
mr wonderful Posted January 3, 2005 Posted January 3, 2005 Originally posted by Mr Spock Oh tiki.....I hope someone rips that bible out of your hands and smacks you with it...... Sounds like her husband needs to right on the bum
Author tiki Posted January 3, 2005 Author Posted January 3, 2005 Okay you guys....I did post this in the spirituality/religious section because it really is a question that I have.
mr wonderful Posted January 3, 2005 Posted January 3, 2005 Sorry I couldn't resist. Boring day at work, I have to amuse myself.
Naive Posted January 3, 2005 Posted January 3, 2005 It's normal to have these type of questions, I do too. I don't know if it is only meant for us to the normal thing which is mitionary but what about people saying that it says in the bible that the wife should obey her husband, then what?
whichwayisup Posted January 3, 2005 Posted January 3, 2005 I guess facials would be out too. OK tiki...I am not religious but I do understand you're serious on this one. I guess my suggestion would be talk to a priest or paster? Depending on your religion. That could help you or do a google search as well, I bet some information will come up there too. Good luck.
Author tiki Posted January 3, 2005 Author Posted January 3, 2005 I just want to 'attempt' to do the right thing....and was curious as to what the BIBLE said about it. But I don't want to stop doing it, that'd be crazy. Anyone got any references? Moose, Dyer, what do you guys think?
Author tiki Posted January 3, 2005 Author Posted January 3, 2005 Originally posted by whichwayisup I guess my suggestion would be talk to a priest or paster? "Excuse me Mr. Pastor, is it okay that my husband slaps my ass, calls me his whore and then we have anal sex, but only after I give him head?!" See - I just can't do it!
Mr Spock Posted January 3, 2005 Posted January 3, 2005 The bible can be interpreted into what you want to hear, as is proved a thousand times over by churches and people who go to those churches. Don't look to a publication that gets twisted by individuals and organizations for their own needs look inside yourself. You're married. If it feels good, do it.
Mr Spock Posted January 3, 2005 Posted January 3, 2005 Didn't you post anyways he's the 14 second man or something? If anal and oral make him last longer you could throw that into your reasoning with your minister........
Author tiki Posted January 3, 2005 Author Posted January 3, 2005 LMAO...yeah, you've got a good point. After all, I can't be the ONLY one in my church having dirty sex. Maybe there will be a special place for us in heaven? With whips and chains in a dungeon-like setting?
Stone Posted January 3, 2005 Posted January 3, 2005 LMAO!! Take this quiz at the bottom of the link. http://www.porn-free.org/oral_sex.htm
whichwayisup Posted January 3, 2005 Posted January 3, 2005 "Excuse me Mr. Pastor, is it okay that my husband slaps my ass, calls me his whore and then we have anal sex, but only after I give him head?!" See - I just can't do it! LMFAO!!!! That isn't what I meant, but you knew that... Teeheee...Still funny though...Could you imagine the look on the guys face? s***, probably turn him on big time too! LOL!
johan Posted January 3, 2005 Posted January 3, 2005 How can you repent for a sin that it's not possible for you to commit anymore? Should you also repent for waiting to repent until it was convenient for you?
Author tiki Posted January 3, 2005 Author Posted January 3, 2005 Originally posted by johan How can you repent for a sin that it's not possible for you to commit anymore? Should you also repent for waiting to repent until it was convenient for you? I don't see your beef. If I want to ask for forgiveness for having pre-marital sex, what's the problem? Anyway, did you want to respond to my original question, by chance?
johan Posted January 3, 2005 Posted January 3, 2005 No beef. Just a question. You just said you were hoping to do things close to the right way. If you wait until it's no longer possible to commit the sin, then can your repentance be sincere? I mean the conventional wisdom is that God doesn't approve of pre-marital sex, and I assume you knew that before you were married. If it bothered you that you were sinning, you would have repented when it happened. But you waited until you were in the clear. The bible also implies masturbation, at least for men, is a sin. And by implication, any sex not directed toward procreation.
Author tiki Posted January 3, 2005 Author Posted January 3, 2005 I understand that. I know that there are a lot of things in the BIBLE that I don't agree with or I think they could be analyzed in numerous positions. My question does concern me some, to a slight degree, because I just got married. I was curious to whether or not certain positions were supposed to be 'wrong'...or if there was only one 'right' position. Curiousity doesn't mean I'm changing. I'm just curious as to how it's 'supposed' to be.
blind_otter Posted January 3, 2005 Posted January 3, 2005 Any position that can't lead to procreation is wrong, according to the bible. At least that's what I learned in 9 years of Catholic school. Also, if you use birth control it doesn't matter what position you're in - you're not supposed to use BC according to the bible. Be fruitful and multiply.
johan Posted January 3, 2005 Posted January 3, 2005 Sorry, I edited the post you responded to. Probably should have just added another response.
Author tiki Posted January 3, 2005 Author Posted January 3, 2005 Originally posted by johan If it bothered you that you were sinning, you would have repented when it happened. But you waited until you were in the clear. Right. I felt bad after I had pre-marital sex with my husband. But it felt worse to pull that away from him. I asked him in the beginning if he was okay with no sex until marriage and he agreed, but once we got going, it was definitely much harder to stop it. I can't imagine asking for forgiveness knowing that I'd do it again? That's why I waited until now. ~BO, thanks. It makes sense. I'm just not looking to have 30 kids right now.
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