aaronb87 Posted December 13, 2013 Share Posted December 13, 2013 For quite a while I have been suffering from anger, depression, envy, jealousy and inferiority. I am 26 years old but do have a fiancee that has been with me for three years. I get envy when it comes to other's success, weddings, babies, cars, money, jobs. I seeth in anger when someone I knew from high school got engaged or have a wedding or a child. Don't get me wrong, I love kids to death, I just wished I had some by now . I don't have many friends at all that are close and with me having Aspbergers Syndrome and PDD makes it difficult. I feel at times to be a failure because I never been able to be successful in life. I been trying to get a steady job and nothing has been coming yet. I just want to get stable so my fiancee can get a wedding date set and finally be married. We been engaged for 32 months with no idea what date it will happen. I have tried and failed so many times to stop being envious of other people. I'm angry because I feel behind in life and I don't know what else to do. Link to post Share on other sites
jm2013 Posted December 13, 2013 Share Posted December 13, 2013 Why do you get so angry? You should look at somebody else's success and replicate how they got there. It's not an easy road and takes dedication, persistence and a mentality that YOU will be the successful one. I've read many self help books and they all basically say the same thing. Focus on and make a vision for yourself. It sounds weird but if you do this things naturally tend to fall in place for you. The way it sounds right now you probably walk into an interview and they can sense the negativity. People read you every day. If you are able to turn that off and find a happy, upbeat optimistic attitude in life I guarantee things will start changing. It doesn't hurt to write things down on paper. Make a plan and execute on it. Want a better job? Be persistent and find it. Go talk to people in your field. When you display how passionate and persistent you are doors will open trust me. Good luck! Link to post Share on other sites
Author aaronb87 Posted December 13, 2013 Author Share Posted December 13, 2013 I get so angry because it feels like I can't progress in life. I would not be angry if i had a job. I just want my fiancee and I to be together finally. I feel embarrassed to be asked when we are gonna get Madrid constantly from so many. I have no answer to that question. Link to post Share on other sites
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