Bandito Posted December 13, 2013 Share Posted December 13, 2013 there i was going through my news feed on Instagram. i saw one of my old friends profiles, then went through her pics. saw pics of my ex and this dude all up on her, it was back when me and my ex were still together. it was the weekends when i wanted to spend it with her, but she said she was going away. it wasn't only that pic, there were more. i'm so pissed off and hurt. i'm going to send her a text saying "i f*cking knew you were cheating and lying the whole time, i know everything. i knew i should have never trusted you." Link to post Share on other sites
Author Bandito Posted December 13, 2013 Author Share Posted December 13, 2013 NO! See, now you have closure. She's scum. Now block her from everything. Erase her digital existence from your life. i do have closure, but i want this bitch to know that i know everything. i want to ruin her holidays. she was hiding me this whole time from the new guy. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Bandito Posted December 13, 2013 Author Share Posted December 13, 2013 You won't ruin her holiday. She doesn't care. Look, you've got to get over it. You keep screwing up your healing by raking back over it again and again. Just leave it. Be thankful that she is someone else's problem. Be free. i know, i know. i'm so stupid that i believed her and that she's been playing me. i just have to say one last thing to her, then i'm finally done. i'm already messed up from knowing, what else worst can happen to me now?! having her admit it will give me the closure, i need to confront her. Link to post Share on other sites
organizedchaos Posted December 13, 2013 Share Posted December 13, 2013 No you f*cking don't! Don't you f*cking dare! Leave it alone. Stop being her bitch, she'll get off on the attention. Leave it alone! Agreed. DONT give the satisfaction. Move on. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Bandito Posted December 13, 2013 Author Share Posted December 13, 2013 No you f*cking don't! Don't you f*cking dare! Leave it alone. Stop being her bitch, she'll get off on the attention. Leave it alone! she got caught, why can't i make her feel guilty?! i want this revenge so bad. Link to post Share on other sites
Haydn Posted December 13, 2013 Share Posted December 13, 2013 Your revenge is indifference. In fact you should not not even care about revenge. Yep she does not care, you wont hurt her in the least, she will just thing you are sad. Stop looking at things that set you back! QUOTE=Bandito;5399454]she got caught, why can't i make her feel guilty?! i want this revenge so bad. 5 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Bandito Posted December 13, 2013 Author Share Posted December 13, 2013 Because she clearly does NOT feel guilty. She doesn't care! Otherwise, the guilt would make her confess. She's out for herself. Now look after you and get over it already. All you're going to do is demonstrate that you're still stuck on her. Right now, my ovaries alone are more manly than you're being right now.. Sack up. Let it go. fine. i have an idea, what if someone here adds her on instagram to confirm she's really with this guy. that will satisfy me and give me an answer, instead of suffering forever and left wondering. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Bandito Posted December 13, 2013 Author Share Posted December 13, 2013 You're suffering because you keep thinking she's going to give you some remorseful, emotive reaction that will somehow satisfy this warped obsession you have with her being sorry. Sonetimes, people act like twats and they're simply not sorry. They don't feel guilt or remorse. She has proven time and time again that she feels no guilt over this. And exposing her cheating is not the magic bullet. She will NEVER care. So why do you? alright f*ck her feelings. but i care about mine, i just want to know i didn't waste my time in love with a foe. you know what i mean? like if she really loved me or she was just playing me this whole time. i'm going to spend forever wondering, i need to know. if its true, i'll finally move on. Link to post Share on other sites
lil hoodlum Posted December 13, 2013 Share Posted December 13, 2013 (edited) Look, I am not trying to play the devils advocate here but, I don't think the two of you are ever going to get back together, too much pain, heartache, and gameplaying. In other words, too much damage has been caused. If it were me, I would call her out on it all. All of her lies, BS, and games that she had played on you. Will it accomplish much? No, but at least you are letting her know that you are onto the kind of person that she is. She made you out to be the fool and now you will let her know that you will not be fooled by her anymore. Please though, give this a few days to let your emotions calm down before you decide what you are going to do. Decide ultimately what is best for you to do for the long-term. I really don't think that things are every likely to get better between the two of you though. I am sorry. Edited December 13, 2013 by lil hoodlum spelling 1 Link to post Share on other sites
aliveagain Posted December 13, 2013 Share Posted December 13, 2013 Cheaterville, post her on the cheater site if it gives you closure. I think becoming successful will have a greater effect. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Bandito Posted December 13, 2013 Author Share Posted December 13, 2013 Look, I am not trying to play the devils advocate here but, I don't think the two of you are ever going to get back together, too much pain, heartache, and gameplaying. In other words, too much damage has been caused. If it were me, I would call her out on it all. All of her lies, BS, and games that she had played on you. Will it accomplish much? No, but at least you are letting her know that you are onto the kind of person that she is. She made you out to be the fool and now you will let her know that you will not be fooled by her anymore. Please though, give this a few days to let your emotions calm down before you decide what you are going to do. Decide ultimately what is best for you to do for the long-term. I really don't think that things are every likely to get better between the two of you though. I am sorry. you said it right. at least she'll know i caught her in the act, and i'm not the fool she thinks i am. i'm just going to put it out there and i don't expect to talk to her again. i'm just going to send a text saying "you say you're heart isn't in it to be in a relationship, but from the info i just came across, it says different. thanks for lying this whole time and cheating, take care." Link to post Share on other sites
lil hoodlum Posted December 13, 2013 Share Posted December 13, 2013 you said it right. at least she'll know i caught her in the act, and i'm not the fool she thinks i am. i'm just going to put it out there and i don't expect to talk to her again. i'm just going to send a text saying "you say you're heart isn't in it to be in a relationship, but from the info i just came across, it says different. thanks for lying this whole time and cheating, take care." Look, please, take a few days to let your emotions calm down from this. Then decide what is the best choice for you to do for your long-term recovery. You may decide to just do nothing. If she comes back to you again, you would be wiser knowing what kind of person she is. You could just sit back and laugh at all of her silly antics. As they say, give some people enough rope, and they will hang themselves. For now, just be content that you finally know the truth. You may decide you know all you need to know now and decide to do nothing. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Haydn Posted December 13, 2013 Share Posted December 13, 2013 If you send that she will always view you as plan B,C or even D. You are going to make yourself look very very bitter. She and her new beau may even have a laugh about it? Or worse pity you. Get your head out of the sand and worry about yourself now. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Bandito Posted December 13, 2013 Author Share Posted December 13, 2013 the thing is i don't know for sure, you know like "nothing is what it seems." thats why i need some type of confirmation. i need find out the truth without directly contacting her then. its f*cking torture, i can't settle for "closure comes from within." believe me, i'll be ready to date a new girl if its true! Link to post Share on other sites
Zoe Lilith Posted December 13, 2013 Share Posted December 13, 2013 I bombarded my ex with sms, emails, on whatsapp, viber, everything I could think off to get his attantion, when I realized that, his "stories" didn't make sense. I never received a single message back, not even "beat it", nothing!!! I didn't want to accept the fact that he didn't care, that he is not responding to my pain. I wanted him to say something, anything.. so I begged and pleaded him to talk to me to explain, apologising for annoying him .....again, nothing!! Don't make the same mistake, you will regret it. They are NOT worth the energy! 8 Link to post Share on other sites
JustJoe Posted December 13, 2013 Share Posted December 13, 2013 i do have closure, but i want this bitch to know that i know everything. i want to ruin her holidays. she was hiding me this whole time from the new guy.You aren't going to ruin her Holidays, you are going to ruin yours. If she could do this to you , it shows that she doesn't care even a little bit. F**k her. 4 Link to post Share on other sites
Qactus Posted December 13, 2013 Share Posted December 13, 2013 I bombarded my ex with sms, emails, on whatsapp, viber, everything I could think off to get his attantion, when I realized that, his "stories" didn't make sense. I never received a single message back, not even "beat it", nothing!!! I didn't want to accept the fact that he didn't care, that he is not responding to my pain. I wanted him to say something, anything.. so I begged and pleaded him to talk to me to explain, apologising for annoying him .....again, nothing!! Don't make the same mistake, you will regret it. They are NOT worth the energy! Well said! Link to post Share on other sites
JustJoe Posted December 13, 2013 Share Posted December 13, 2013 she got caught, why can't i make her feel guilty?! i want this revenge so bad.You can't make her feel guilty. If you confront her, it will boost her ego and make you look like a p*ssy, and she will ridicule you. You want her to have a Merry Christmas? Do what you are thinking of doing, to see you suffer would be the best present you could give her. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Bandito Posted December 13, 2013 Author Share Posted December 13, 2013 I bombarded my ex with sms, emails, on whatsapp, viber, everything I could think off to get his attantion, when I realized that, his "stories" didn't make sense. I never received a single message back, not even "beat it", nothing!!! I didn't want to accept the fact that he didn't care, that he is not responding to my pain. I wanted him to say something, anything.. so I begged and pleaded him to talk to me to explain, apologising for annoying him .....again, nothing!! Don't make the same mistake, you will regret it. They are NOT worth the energy! i get what you are saying, but i don't expect a response from my ex at all. i want to put it out there that i caught her and i'm not a chump. p.s. you're attractive Link to post Share on other sites
Zoe Lilith Posted December 13, 2013 Share Posted December 13, 2013 She probably won't respond no matter what you say. You'll start to wonder if she got the message, then you'll send one more, then another one, then another one.....you'll become ME..lol...don't do it! 3 Link to post Share on other sites
JustJoe Posted December 13, 2013 Share Posted December 13, 2013 Because she clearly does NOT feel guilty. She doesn't care! Otherwise, the guilt would make her confess. She's out for herself. Now look after you and get over it already. All you're going to do is demonstrate that you're still stuck on her. Right now, my ovaries alone are more manly than you're being right now.. Sack up. Let it go.So, you have manly ovaries do you? LMFAO!!:laugh: Link to post Share on other sites
Author Bandito Posted December 13, 2013 Author Share Posted December 13, 2013 You don't need any confirmation that she's a total bitch. Everyone here already knows that. How much more do you need? You're obsessed. She's a sociopath (probably) and like a good little lap dog, you keep getting reeled in. Knowing won't change anything. You'll just find another thing you need to confirm, one more "thing" you need to get off your chest, because you can't let go. Wash, rinse, repeat. Simon's gonna make you run laps. there's this part of me that thinks she's a good person, but another part that says she's a lying bitch. i need to know the truth, and finally end this turmoil. Link to post Share on other sites
sarbunoemi Posted December 13, 2013 Share Posted December 13, 2013 If you shower her with hateful messages, she will laugh at you for being so silly to text her. Do you want to be in that place in which your scum ex laughs at you while you hate her? Does she even deserves any emotion from you? Hatred is an emotion, does she deserves that? Keep your hatred to yourself, it would be much healthier for you and, for her, she might wonder how come you moved on so fast. Don't entertain her like a fool, because she doesn't deserve any emotion from you that's why kill her with indifference. That will make her crawl after you, probably after a few months, few years who knows. Anyway, please yourself with your hobbies, new activities, go out with your friends, take a trip to an unvisited place, meet new girls etc. Leave her alone and please yourself, instead, do things you couldn't do in this toxic relationship, don't contact her at all even though she might text you or call, nothing! block her, delete her number, delete her from your life, she doesn't deserve your love at all! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Zoe Lilith Posted December 13, 2013 Share Posted December 13, 2013 i get what you are saying, but i don't expect a response from my ex at all. i want to put it out there that i caught her and i'm not a chump. p.s. you're attractive Believe me, I didn't expect anything...few day later, it started to bother me and I couldn't stop...From being angry and nasty, I went to apologising, then I got angry again..he probably thinks that I am a psychothic..I'll never forgive myself for being such an idiot! Thank you Link to post Share on other sites
Author Bandito Posted December 13, 2013 Author Share Posted December 13, 2013 She probably won't respond no matter what you say. You'll start to wonder if she got the message, then you'll send one more, then another one, then another one.....you'll become ME..lol...don't do it! not if i send an email and attach a tracker to it, then i'll know where and when she read it lol. Link to post Share on other sites
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