lil hoodlum Posted December 13, 2013 Share Posted December 13, 2013 the thing is i don't know for sure, you know like "nothing is what it seems." thats why i need some type of confirmation. i need find out the truth without directly contacting her then. its f*cking torture, i can't settle for "closure comes from within." believe me, i'll be ready to date a new girl if its true! I thought you had the proof. If you are not for sure that she did cheat, then just let it go. I know easier said then done. I again say I don't think the two of you will ever be able to patch things up. Too much damage has been caused. It seems that things between the two of you have become toxic. Just let it go and walk away from this mess. You DO deserve better than all of this. Time to let it go and focus on healing your heart for your next love. Link to post Share on other sites
Zoe Lilith Posted December 13, 2013 Share Posted December 13, 2013 there's this part of me that thinks she's a good person, but another part that says she's a lying bitch. i need to know the truth, and finally end this turmoil. If a person plays with someone's emotions like that, that is NOT a good person! As aspiringuitarheroine said: "she sound like a sociopath" Link to post Share on other sites
JustJoe Posted December 13, 2013 Share Posted December 13, 2013 Dude, I'm sorry to say this, but you sound like a needy pansy. Man the he** up and get over it. If you post anything, she is going to laugh in your face. If that's what you want, go for it. 4 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Bandito Posted December 13, 2013 Author Share Posted December 13, 2013 I thought you had the proof. If you are not for sure that she did cheat, then just let it go. I know easier said then done. I again say I don't think the two of you will ever be able to patch things up. Too much damage has been caused. It seems that things between the two of you have become toxic. Just let it go and walk away from this mess. You DO deserve better than all of this. Time to let it go and focus on healing your heart for your next love. i mean, it's not hard evidence, it's just her in all these pictures with him. i added a few things up and everything makes sense. for example, all her friends and family deleted pictures of me while we were still together. theres just a bunch of shady things. i want to find a new girl now, its just so hard to find a good girl i could trust. Link to post Share on other sites
lil hoodlum Posted December 13, 2013 Share Posted December 13, 2013 there's this part of me that thinks she's a good person, but another part that says she's a lying bitch. i need to know the truth, and finally end this turmoil. The truth is for you now, she is not interested in being with you nor is she interested in clearing the air. Leave her be. If you don't know the truth, then confronting her is likely to work against you in this situation. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Bandito Posted December 13, 2013 Author Share Posted December 13, 2013 Dude, I'm sorry to say this, but you sound like a needy pansy. Man the he** up and get over it. If you post anything, she is going to laugh in your face. If that's what you want, go for it. hardly doubt my ex would laugh, more like get pissed off. if i would send her a text, i'd try not to sound weak. i'll say "thanks for lying and cheating. take care you f*cking wh*re." Link to post Share on other sites
Zoe Lilith Posted December 13, 2013 Share Posted December 13, 2013 hardly doubt my ex would laugh, more like get pissed off. if i would send her a text, i'd try not to sound weak. i'll say "thanks for lying and cheating. take care you f*cking wh*re." I never believed my ex wouldn't react...he must have had such an ego boost reading every message I've sent. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
lil hoodlum Posted December 13, 2013 Share Posted December 13, 2013 i want to find a new girl now, its just so hard to find a good girl i could trust. There are lots of good girls out there that you can trust. Your ex isn't one of them. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Bandito Posted December 13, 2013 Author Share Posted December 13, 2013 ahh, damn. alright i'll stop now, you guys are all right. i turned my phone off. i'm about to get crazy drunk and sleep on it. i actually feel better then i thought i would be. f*ck her, there's so many good girls out there, i just need to let go and find the right person. i don't want to be a psycho anymore, time to move on and be strong. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Kizmet Fisher Posted December 13, 2013 Share Posted December 13, 2013 i mean, it's not hard evidence, it's just her in all these pictures with him. i added a few things up and everything makes sense. for example, all her friends and family deleted pictures of me while we were still together. theres just a bunch of shady things. i want to find a new girl now, its just so hard to find a good girl i could trust. Sorry OP, but any girl of even a little quality would take one look at the emotional and mental wreck that is you and run for her life. You need to get yourself together, and start acting like you have functioning male genitalia. 4 Link to post Share on other sites
lil hoodlum Posted December 13, 2013 Share Posted December 13, 2013 ahh, damn. alright i'll stop now, you guys are all right. i turned my phone off. i'm about to get crazy drunk and sleep on it. i actually feel better then i thought i would be. f*ck her, there's so many good girls out there, i just need to let go and find the right person. i don't want to be a psycho anymore, time to move on and be strong. You CAN do it!!! GO BANDITO!!! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Zoe Lilith Posted December 13, 2013 Share Posted December 13, 2013 (edited) ahh, damn. alright i'll stop now, you guys are all right. i turned my phone off. i'm about to get crazy drunk and sleep on it. i actually feel better then i thought i would be. f*ck her, there's so many good girls out there, i just need to let go and find the right person. i don't want to be a psycho anymore, time to move on and be strong. I know I am repeating myself..I felt the way you feel now. I thought, I'll just sent one message to let him know that I know that he is full of s***, and that I am not that big of an idiot.. but it didn't stop there I became obsessed...AGAIN; Don't make that mistake! Life is too short for trying to prove something to people like that. Good luck Edited December 13, 2013 by Zoe Lilith spelling Link to post Share on other sites
Simon Phoenix Posted December 13, 2013 Share Posted December 13, 2013 you said it right. at least she'll know i caught her in the act, and i'm not the fool she thinks i am. i'm just going to put it out there and i don't expect to talk to her again. i'm just going to send a text saying "you say you're heart isn't in it to be in a relationship, but from the info i just came across, it says different. thanks for lying this whole time and cheating, take care." I haven't read the entire thread, but this is such an awful, b*tchmade message. It won't make her feel bad, it'll make her laugh at you. I mean, she literally couldn't care less if you know or if you don't. The only person here that will feel like a chump is you. Link to post Share on other sites
Simon Phoenix Posted December 13, 2013 Share Posted December 13, 2013 not if i send an email and attach a tracker to it, then i'll know where and when she read it lol. Stop being a spineless idiot. Honestly, she should have to earn the right to know your thoughts. Don't emote like an immature, insecure teenage girl. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Bandito Posted December 13, 2013 Author Share Posted December 13, 2013 I haven't read the entire thread, but this is such an awful, b*tchmade message. It won't make her feel bad, it'll make her laugh at you. I mean, she literally couldn't care less if you know or if you don't. The only person here that will feel like a chump is you. care less my ass. she covered this whole thing up. she said she has a reputation of being the most loyal partner, but she's not and she thinks she got away with it. but i caught her, she should know her guilt. i could ruin her current relationship, because she played us both. keeping me a secret from him too. Link to post Share on other sites
Simon Phoenix Posted December 13, 2013 Share Posted December 13, 2013 care less my ass. she covered this whole thing up. she said she has a reputation of being the most loyal partner, but she's not and she thinks she got away with it. she should know her guilt. She doesn't give a sh*t. The only person you are hurting is yourself. Stop being an obsessive madman. We know she sucks, don't lower yourself to her level by being a spineless, weak-willed idiot. Be strong, stop being a damn pansy. care less my ass. she covered this whole thing up. she said she has a reputation of being the most loyal partner, but she's not and she thinks she got away with it. but i caught her, she should know her guilt. i could ruin her current relationship, because she played us both. keeping me a secret from him too. I mean, really? Are you 10 years old? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Woggle Posted December 13, 2013 Share Posted December 13, 2013 Just move and live a happy life. Trust me when I say that will get to her more than anything. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Simon Phoenix Posted December 13, 2013 Share Posted December 13, 2013 Not if he's another little lap dog. He'll beg for her back again. I mean seriously, if she turned on the charm right now, i bet your pants would be off in a second. Chances are, the bloke she's with is just as needy, and insecure, and hoodwinked as you. Either that or he knew of Bandito's presence the entire time and didn't give a crap. I wouldn't be surprised at that either. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Bandito Posted December 13, 2013 Author Share Posted December 13, 2013 Either that or he knew of Bandito's presence the entire time and didn't give a crap. I wouldn't be surprised at that either. he doesn't know, my ex forced me to put my instagram on private or delete pictures of us together because she claimed she didn't want her co-workers seeing her private life. complete BS that i didn't buy. at the same time all her friends and family blocked me. this all happened when this new guy came in the picture. Link to post Share on other sites
Simon Phoenix Posted December 13, 2013 Share Posted December 13, 2013 he doesn't know, my ex forced me to put my instagram on private or delete pictures of us together because she claimed she didn't want her co-workers seeing her private life. complete BS that i didn't buy. at the same time all her friends and family blocked me. this all happened when this new guy came in the picture. Yeah, I don't really care. Neither does she, or he. I'm sorry you discovered this, but make this your inspiration to move forward. Don't get caught in the muck -- all you'll get is dirty. Link to post Share on other sites
ConfusedHumanBeing Posted December 13, 2013 Share Posted December 13, 2013 he doesn't know, my ex forced me to put my instagram on private or delete pictures of us together because she claimed she didn't want her co-workers seeing her private life. complete BS that i didn't buy. at the same time all her friends and family blocked me. this all happened when this new guy came in the picture. Who cares? Honestly...telling her or the guy won't get her back or help you sleep better at night. None of it will so why obsess over it like you are? Plus, you shouldn't be snooping on her stuff anyway because there is always a chance of finding this stuff. Knock it off and go back to healing. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Bandito Posted December 13, 2013 Author Share Posted December 13, 2013 all i want is revenge on this bitch. the only way i know to get it, is to tell her off. Link to post Share on other sites
ConfusedHumanBeing Posted December 13, 2013 Share Posted December 13, 2013 all i want is revenge on this bitch. the only way i know to get it, is to tell her off. Oh knock it off Batman. Revenge is for children. It won't do a thing other than make her laugh at you that it still affects you. You will look incredibly weak, she'll laugh at you, you will obsess more, and nothing will happen. Let...it....GO 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Bandito Posted December 13, 2013 Author Share Posted December 13, 2013 In my opinion, he's never begun healing. I mean, how much cyber stalking has he been doing over the last few weeks? Did he ever stop? What's the longest stretch of NC? if you read the thread, i found out on accident. Link to post Share on other sites
Kizmet Fisher Posted December 13, 2013 Share Posted December 13, 2013 When you grow up, you'll realise the best revenge is living well. What you're doing, is basically throwing a temper tantrum, screaming "Why didn't you LOVE MEEEEEEEEEEE?!" Agreed. Short of murdering this girl or her family, there is really nothing he can do to her that will bother her. You have no cards left to play OP, it's time for you to actually stop obsessing over your ex. She is completely indifferent to you now, it's time to work on feeling the same way about her. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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