TranslucentThoughts Posted January 3, 2005 Share Posted January 3, 2005 As most of you may know (because i posted about it earlier) I slept with my ex on Friday night. Afterwards was kind of awkward and he was being moody and sort of closed-off. I haven't talked to him at all since it happened. I have to see him at school though... proabably tomorrow... and I'm worried. I'm really afraid he won't want to talk to me at all now. Before this happened... we had just started to talk... as friends, you know? and then we slept together... and I'm afraid he'll think I want him back... or that he can't talk to me or something. I don't know... I just don't want him to feel awkward... and I don't want to feel awkward either. How can I talk to him about this and explain that we're both on the same page... and that I don't expect him to want me back or anything like that... and I really don't want this to get in the way of trying to be friends... Or should I not bring it up at all?... Link to post Share on other sites
iceisles Posted January 4, 2005 Share Posted January 4, 2005 This is exactly why you don't sleep with your ex, even if hormones are raging. Now you are in a situation where, in my opinion, you must talk with him and be brutally honest. He is surely thinking that you want to get back together, and while the truth will hurt, now knowing will hurt him more. I wouldn't wait too long, either - he's probably in some serious mental anguish trying to figure out what's going on. Don't sleep with exes in the future. You just dig giant holes that are a bit_h to get out of. Good luck. Link to post Share on other sites
tattoomytoe Posted January 4, 2005 Share Posted January 4, 2005 tell him it was an impulse....maybe not that you regeret it, unless you want to hurt him. just tell him you wre feeling a lot of things and reached back for some one you knew to comfort you. Link to post Share on other sites
Weird Posted January 4, 2005 Share Posted January 4, 2005 yeah. dont sleep with the ex if you dont want them back. Go into the bathroom, whip out the fingers and go to work. Satisfy the urge that way. I hope it all works out ok for you without too much stress. Link to post Share on other sites
Author TranslucentThoughts Posted January 4, 2005 Author Share Posted January 4, 2005 Ah, Okay... I didn't explain the situation properly. HE doesn't want to get back together with me either. I just don't think he realizes that I feel the same way... well... at least part of me does. I still love and care about him and apparently (so he said when we split) that he feels the same way about me. It's just that... we slept together... and we hadn't even gotten to begin being friends yet. I'm afraid he won't want to be friends because of this incident... is it possible that he'll feel that way? What should I say to him? Link to post Share on other sites
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