dumped2013 Posted December 13, 2013 Share Posted December 13, 2013 Someone had to get it started. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
RightThere Posted December 13, 2013 Share Posted December 13, 2013 Infidelity 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Keenly Posted December 13, 2013 Share Posted December 13, 2013 Being accused of cheating when you aren't / trust issues. Privacy violation issues. Guilt tripping. Flipping blame when you express relationship concerns. Put downs / insults. Intentionally starting arguments / starting fights over nothing. Seeking attention from other males constantly. Complaining about who you choose to associate with or what you choose to do when you are not with her. Throwing a fit when you turn down last minute plans with her when you already made plans with friends. Getting emotional and insecure when its that one time a year that I don't want to have sex. I have so many more. 4 Link to post Share on other sites
Woggle Posted December 13, 2013 Share Posted December 13, 2013 For me it would be. Cheating Violence General contempt and lack of respect towards me Putting me in a position where nothing I do is right. First two are automatic dealbreakers and the last two I will try to fix but if I get nowhere I will leave. Link to post Share on other sites
violet1 Posted December 13, 2013 Share Posted December 13, 2013 I'm surprised noone mentioned lack of sex and intimacy. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Keenly Posted December 13, 2013 Share Posted December 13, 2013 I'm surprised noone mentioned lack of sex and intimacy. Usually what has been suggested so far are precursors to both. Link to post Share on other sites
InnocentMan Posted December 13, 2013 Share Posted December 13, 2013 In this order; 1/Becoming obese 2/Not shaving legs 3/Being a pain in the arse 4/Forcing you to watch 'The Notebook' 5/Trying to turn your cat against you 6/Having a small but noticeable moustache 7/Not making good sandwiches 8/Listening to ****e music at full volume 9/Telling you boring stories about her sister/mother/stupid best friend 10/Leaving blood in the toilet bowl. (Just flush it twice ffs). 6 Link to post Share on other sites
Woggle Posted December 13, 2013 Share Posted December 13, 2013 Usually what has been suggested so far are precursors to both. Yeah. Once the sex dries up it's pretty much done. I like to see the signs before hand. Link to post Share on other sites
Author dumped2013 Posted December 15, 2013 Author Share Posted December 15, 2013 Cheating Lying Lying Lying I hate her for lying Link to post Share on other sites
Yarrow Posted December 15, 2013 Share Posted December 15, 2013 Cheating Lying Lying Lying I hate her for lying I have to say, these reasons sound pretty valid to me. Link to post Share on other sites
EnigmaWolf92 Posted December 15, 2013 Share Posted December 15, 2013 don't know what she wants Wont stand up for herself (shuts down, refuses to try and meet a middle ground in conflict) lets others control the relationship (parents ect Note: over 20 years old so yeah..) lack of commitment Well that's my thoughts recently anyhow. Link to post Share on other sites
RonaldS Posted December 15, 2013 Share Posted December 15, 2013 Being accused of cheating when you aren't / trust issues. Privacy violation issues. Guilt tripping. Flipping blame when you express relationship concerns. Put downs / insults. Intentionally starting arguments / starting fights over nothing. Seeking attention from other males constantly. Complaining about who you choose to associate with or what you choose to do when you are not with her. Throwing a fit when you turn down last minute plans with her when you already made plans with friends. Getting emotional and insecure when its that one time a year that I don't want to have sex. I have so many more. Minus the 'seeking attention from other men', this was my XW to a tee. On top of that, throw in some physical abuse and total emotional negligence. Link to post Share on other sites
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