MissBee Posted December 15, 2013 Share Posted December 15, 2013 You are not crazy. He is making you crazy. This is also not about the child. Plenty of people deal with that and aren't making their new partners insane. You will do yourself a big favor if you see all the red flags and cut this guy completely out of your life. You are a filler, he won't get divorced and probably the separation was initiated by the wife. Men can't be alone so you're just keeping him warm until he can convince her to take him back. there's no future with a man married to someone else who wants to stay married to that person. You are this jealous because he's constantly setting you up to feel insecure and less then. There's no good future with a man calling you an idiot and discounting your worries. Press eject and move on. Why does he have full custody and how and why did they separate? Pretty much! Who brought up moving in together? I don't think it was wise to move in with a man who is still married to someone else and isn't planning not to be. As cutedragon has said, this situation doesn't sound like one where he is finished with the marriage, moving on, divorcing and is establishing a life with you. It seems you're a filler for the time being for him and the fact that he is calling you an idiot and not at all trying to reassure, neither is he trying to fully move on from his wife, are HUGE red flags that this relationship might not work out in the long run and that he may be using you as a soft landing and will gladly leave should his wife have him. Link to post Share on other sites
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