Bad karma from being w MM?

[SunsetRed]

Did anyone know of or experience bad karma from having been w an MM?

 

I know of several women who actually "took" the husband from his wife who wanted him back.

 

One took him while he was married to an unsuspecting wife, the other moved in on a separated man who's wife wanted to work things out.

 

In both cases, the women not only lost the man, but lost their financial stability as well. In both cases, the men became husbands to their OW but then cheated on the OW once she was a wife. In the end, both OW turned Wives, ended up divorced while their MM turned husband married a new person. Such a horrible ending to what was probably a sucky non validating relationship anyway.

 

I remember wanting my MM but being afraid of the bad karma that could come to me if I actually took him from the wife. His wife had him tied up w so many financial strings that I would be bound to suffer some consequences.

 

I still wonder what would've happened good or bad had he left his wife for me, but I'l never know and I have to believe that it would've been bad, as the way it ended hurt enough to be bad karma.

[MissBee]

I don't think karma works like that.

 

I do think everything has consequences and effects and doing something one way over another changes things and puts other things into motion good or bad. I do think being in an A can leave you with some residual "stuff" as well as some residual stuff from other things in life can lead you to an A.

 

I don't think there is any way for you to identify these things as happening because of karma. But it is a logical thing that marrying a known cheater, esp if it was never addressed, can lead the tables to turn for you where the same way you got him will be the same way you lose him. Call it karma, but I call it...duh! This isn't to say all cheaters will forever cheat, just that in some cases, idk the details of these two, this person clearly has a problem with cheating and the OW turns a blind eye (as his own BS might have when they met) believing all that needs to happen is he divorce and their new love is the cure when it doesn't in fact work that way.