Pancake08 Posted December 17, 2013 Share Posted December 17, 2013 is it possible to have reconciliation with your spouse if you have been legally separated for 7 months? kid is involve and currently having court case.and he is seeing someone else. is it still possible to fix it? what shall i need to do? Link to post Share on other sites
Philosoraptor Posted December 17, 2013 Share Posted December 17, 2013 It was possible up until the point you said he was seeing someone else. If he is not 100% committed to you and giving your relationship another chance then it's not going to work. Link to post Share on other sites
Yarrow Posted December 17, 2013 Share Posted December 17, 2013 I've read your other posts. Your husband was cruising websites that advertise things like "hot Asian chicks love pleasuring Western men" and "mail order brides from Asia, sweet and submissive" while you were still living together, wasn't he? And you're Asian, if I recall. This man has an Asian fetish and that's probably the only reason he was with you in the first place, in case you haven't already figured that out. Now he's found out that you actually want to be treated like a person, not some kind of robot maid that will also have sex with him on demand, he is already trading you in for a different model. You can't get back together with this guy. No one deserves to be treated the way you have been treated. You can't fix this. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Pancake08 Posted December 17, 2013 Author Share Posted December 17, 2013 I am so sorry, i am just hoping if we can fix our marriage for the sake of our kid, i dont want him to jump into different places all the time..and i am ready to forget and forgive for the sake of our family.. is theres any hope for my broken dream? Link to post Share on other sites
RightThere Posted December 17, 2013 Share Posted December 17, 2013 If he's seeing someone else, then he's not interested in being with you anymore. Sounds like you haven't quite accepted that. I think you just need to focus on how you can work with your soon to be ex husband on how to make the situation work best for your kids. Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted December 17, 2013 Share Posted December 17, 2013 Only if you BOTH want to fix your marriage. Because he's dating someone else, that doesn't seem likely. As awful as it feels now, you may be better off once the divorce is final. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Pancake08 Posted December 20, 2013 Author Share Posted December 20, 2013 Maybe guys you were right, i know its over but its hard for me to accept that esp. I've been dreaming to have complete family since u was young,.. I want to fix our marriage for the best of my son thats why i am thinking this way.is it hard to fix a marriage if he is seeing someone? Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted December 20, 2013 Share Posted December 20, 2013 Maybe guys you were right, i know its over but its hard for me to accept that esp. I've been dreaming to have complete family since u was young,.. I want to fix our marriage for the best of my son thats why i am thinking this way.is it hard to fix a marriage if he is seeing someone? It is impossible to fix a marriage when he is dating someone else. You have a dream of a loving family. That's a nice dream. Hang on to it, just get a new co-star. He no longer wants the part. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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