Is there something there?

[juanito14]

She is a coworker. She's been working there for a little more then two months. We started hanging out in a group, but slowly started to hang out a little more. This last saturday I got her number. She was the one that gave it to me, I didn't even have to ask. We hung out with two other coworkers that night in her car after work. I was sitting shotgun next to her, and every so often she would joke, and playfully hit my leg or arm. Two nights ago we hung out again, but this time just her and I. She asked me questions like am I dating anyone, and my thoughts on relationships. I found out that she is a pretty sexual person. We hung out from about 2am to 4 but I didn't make a move. We had a long hug goodbye, and the next morning she texted me. Saying that she's sorry for acting so weird, and that as long as Im still willing to hang out with her again, shes happy. We then hangout again that night, but in a group. She was sitting next to me again, but didn't say too much, she may have been in a bad mood. We have texted the past 3 days(since I got her number) and also hung out at least once all 3 of those days. Today was the first time we haven't communicated since, which is fine since I'll see her tomorrow at work. My question is, would it come off too strong if I asked her to hang out tonight?

[confusedsoul14]

I think if you really like her and you think that she might like you back, then all you have to do is to keep showing interest in her. That way, she won't feel weird about expressing her own feelings to you freely anymore If you think she would like it if you ask her to hang out with you, then you should definitely go ahead and do that.

[d0nnivain]

How old are you?

 

Asking somebody to "hang out" is a confusing mixed message. It's something friends & college boys do. If you would like to date her at least specify the activity when you ask.

[jimloveslips]

Just go for it, ask her out on a real date.