EAP Posted December 18, 2013 Share Posted December 18, 2013 My ex and I have been broken up for about a year now, and he's just now come back and we've been talking, but I find he's gone back into his usual ignoring me/never telling me that he's busy, etc. He does have pneumonia, but I know even if I had an illness like that I would keep him updated on my recovery and try to talk to him every day. I hear from him (one line/sentence) maybe every other day. He only speaks to me on the weekends while he is at work and has access to Skype. He assures me that he regrets losing me deeply and he really wants to make it okay again with me by showing he can take care of me, but so far...the only time he talks to me is to tell me that he feels like he has the plague. So for the past four nights i've been dreaming about him leaving me for someone else, disappearing, and ignoring me to oblivion.... Any insight would help..because i don't know what to do anymore Link to post Share on other sites
justwhoiam Posted December 18, 2013 Share Posted December 18, 2013 My ex and I have been broken up for about a year now He still is your ex. Isn't he? he's just now come back and we've been talking, but I find he's gone back into his usual ignoring me/never telling me that he's busy, etc. He's your ex. Don't expect him to treat you as if you were his girlfriend. He does have pneumonia, but I know even if I had an illness like that I would keep him updated on my recovery and try to talk to him every day. Why? It's not a good idea to talk to your ex every single day. He assures me that he regrets losing me deeply and he really wants to make it okay again with me by showing he can take care of me So I have to assume you liked the idea of being his girlfriend again. Although that is understandable, you need to behave like an ex now, not like a girlfriend! You are not back together (if you are that was a very bad idea). When and if he will play his cards right, you will discuss being a couple again. Until then, steer clear. Don't let him get too close to you, no intimacy. No kisses. No sex talk. If he cares enough, he will win your love back. Otherwise, what's the point? Being unhappy with someone ignoring you? Remember you broke up for a reason. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
justwhoiam Posted December 18, 2013 Share Posted December 18, 2013 By the way, if he's the one from the thread "He dropped me...", I would think twice or more before getting back together with him. Link to post Share on other sites
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