70K20 Posted January 4, 2005 Share Posted January 4, 2005 Having been seperated for 18 mos,and on a really good road to recovery,I'm wondering why my ex is suddenly asking my kids about my life,my job..my girlfriends.My kids live with me and only see there mom once as week on alternating weekends.She left 18 mos ago for an internet fling than soon fell apart.and hasn't dated since.All the the details are settled and she has her cash.According to my daughtter(14) who actually told me about the questions,becasue she just felt it was weird for her to ask these questions after so long of not asking a thing?My daughter was there for the weekend and could not believe how much much the x was asking about my life details...can comeone maybe fill me in on what might br going on in her head?..or is it typical confused nonsense from a woman? Link to post Share on other sites
Merin Posted January 4, 2005 Share Posted January 4, 2005 Sounds like your Ex Wife may be feeling regret.. While It doesn't mean she want's you back in her life like that (and I'm not ruling it out either) I don't think it's uncommon especially when you share kiddo's to ask about how things are.. curiosity maybe.. Link to post Share on other sites
Owl Posted January 4, 2005 Share Posted January 4, 2005 Well, my first guess is the obvious. Since her affair fizzled on her (big shock), she's likely looking back at what she had in you and is starting regret what's happened...and may be harboring some kind of hope that things could work out in the future. Or, she could just have an interest in you still as a friend. No way to know without asking her is my guess. Sorry to hear about your situation...I could easily have been sitting EXACTLY where you are at right now. My wife had an online emotional affair that I found out about this past Spring...when I confronted her about it, he bought her tickets to fly and live with him, even though they had never met in person. Luckily, things worked out so that she didn't go, and the affair ended immediately. We're still working through things, but my wife still tells me at least once a week how glad she is that she DIDN'T get on that plane. I hope things continue to get better for you friend. Hang in there! Link to post Share on other sites
Author 70K20 Posted January 5, 2005 Author Share Posted January 5, 2005 Ok so I guess its safe to think that this all really means nothing?..Owl,I don't want to ask why she is asking for fear of putting my daughter on the hook and in the middle.So does anyone have any ideas as to what to do ??...as much as I would consider reconciliation,I feel that this means nothing as far as that goes..am I right or what does the world think here? Link to post Share on other sites
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