Boyfriend's very open about good looking women?

[Kayla7]

I feel like I've become very insecure about my body, because my boyfriend is always making comments about good looking women.

 

We watch TV quite a lot, and every time this one girl was on, he'd always make comments like, "She has the perfect body!" "Woah!" etc etc.

 

Not only that, but he will also critique what he calls "ugly" in women on TV or in public.

 

It just bothers me in general. I've never been the type to make comments about a hot guy around my significant others, but I find myself wanting to..

 

Do all men do this? Am I being ridiculous? I know single guys do this..

[sidney2718]

No. You are not being ridiculous. He, on the other hand, is being totally insensitive. If you can find the proper occasion, try to gently explain to him that while you value his willingness to be totally open in his views of the bodies of other women, you'd appreciate it if he would not share the information.

[d0nnivain]

he should be a bit more sensitive but women on TV are generally paid to look like that. Your man's comments about them shouldn't be taken to heart. If you could work out all day, every day & employ a team of people to do your hair & make-up you'd look like that too. It's not real.

[CarrieT]

Kayla, this with the porn issue is just building all these red flags for a relationship that is not working out for both of you…

 

Sounds like it is time to move on.

[Ruby Slippers]

Kayla, this with the porn issue is just building all these red flags for a relationship that is not working out for both of you…

 

Sounds like it is time to move on.

I agree. He has the maturity of a junior high school boy.