LeGenDary_Man Posted January 14, 2014 Share Posted January 14, 2014 (edited) LeGen, I could strongly argue to mind one's own business and stay out of it. Especially if one doesn't know the "whole" story... there could be a lot more to it, and perhaps the wife isn't doing the stabbing and deceit..... Cheating is a disgusting act, enabling it is equally disgusting act. If this particular case represents an affair than OP (Popsicle) should disclose it to (assumed) WW's BS in anonymous fashion and let loose this friend. One day, (assumed) WW's BS would immensely appreciate OP for this deed. and perhaps the wife isn't doing the stabbing and deceit..... If this is true, then your position vis-à-vis this case is valid. Of-course, it makes sense to do homework before disclosing something. If not, then mine is valid: What I find disturbing in this particular case is when so-called friends of "wayward (spouse in a marriage)" become enablers of such disgusting behavior by remaining silent about it or condoning it. If the (assumed) BS doesn't already knows about this development, he would want to know. One day, he would immensely appreciate the person who notified him about this development. Of-course, OP can choose to reveal this development in anonymous fashion and not disclose her identity. If I were a friend of a WW, I would not be among the enablers of this disgusting behavior. At minimum, I would refuse to remain friend of a WW until or unless WW realizes his/her mistake. When an affair ends and the WW decides to reconcile, friends of WW (who knew about this development but remained silent or condoned it), are the first ones to be let loose by WW for the sake of R with BS; the BS never respects these type of friends. It is better to deal with this kind of matter with dignity. My 2 cents. Edited January 14, 2014 by LeGenDary_Man Link to post Share on other sites
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