beach Posted December 24, 2013 Share Posted December 24, 2013 I don't think he's a total jerk. And I do want more for myself... this isn't going to be a lifelong relationship. But I do feel the need to just back off. I asked him to chat for a few and he never responded. So then I'd said "I mean the world to you... my ass." and right away he answers "?" so I said "You're unbelievable" and he responds "you're mean". So I respond "I'm mean? You just gave me all that crap and then you won't give me 5 minutes of your time? And you wonder why I question everything?" He never answered. I really have half a mind to just "yell" at him and say everything I want to say all at once... but I don't know if that's worth it. Maybe I should just write it and then throw it away. ugh. ****. I did send him a text after that saying "I'll believe you when I stop getting breadcrumbs". :x oops ha Never ever responding to him again would send a clearer message. He's treating you like dirt and you keep begging for more. Quit communicating! He's MARRIED!!! Someday when you're married maybe you'll respect what marriage signifies. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author heylovey22 Posted December 24, 2013 Author Share Posted December 24, 2013 Respectfully, if you're going to respond that way... Don't read the MM/OW section. We are all posting here for the same reason. Link to post Share on other sites
krazikat Posted December 24, 2013 Share Posted December 24, 2013 Respectfully, if you're going to respond that way... Don't read the MM/OW section. We are all posting here for the same reason. Actually, what was said.was quite true...read all the responses again and you should see the trend...pretty much everyone agrees he is treating you poorly...and please keep in mind this is a PUBLIC forum and you may get responses from pretty much fOW, current OW, BS, WS, combo, others, none of the above....etc. Perhaps you should consider why you feel so defensive when someone points out he is married. Not only is he presently married, he is clearly gaming you. His responses to you are a mind ****, meant to make you question yourself. Would you accept his behavior if he wasnt married? Also, you are incorrect...not everyone is posting for the same reason...read around a bit... Link to post Share on other sites
ElectricTangerine Posted December 24, 2013 Share Posted December 24, 2013 Him saying he's disappointed in you is very manipulative. And he's apparently blind and deaf to the fact that he's letting you down big time. Won't even acknowledge that and plays it off like it's all in your head. He's keeping you around because it strokes his ego. You're moving soon anyway, stay NC so you can move on from him faster and be more ready to meet someone available in your new area. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
beach Posted December 24, 2013 Share Posted December 24, 2013 Respectfully, if you're going to respond that way... Don't read the MM/OW section. We are all posting here for the same reason. Why does it bother you? Notice he didn't accept blame for ignoring you - but turned it around on you? It's as if he expects you to think crumbs are more than enough. He's lowered the bar that you should expect nothing and be happy with that. It sounds like he's got other OW - and he's too busy to bother texting you now. Why not date available men? 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Baby123 Posted December 24, 2013 Share Posted December 24, 2013 I'd leave before he does. Trust your gut, all is not right. As bad as it sounds, its always a bit easier being the one that finished it. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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