RedHawk08 Posted December 23, 2013 Share Posted December 23, 2013 If you all do a search on Youtube for this guy Liam Naden, he probably has some advice to help in your situation. I wish I'd found him earlier, his calm style and advice that I learned the hard way myself, could make a severe difference to your situation. I can't apply any of it right now, as my wife isn't speaking to me at the moment, so I can't tell you how well it works. Link to post Share on other sites
Yasuandio Posted December 23, 2013 Share Posted December 23, 2013 You are right, RedHalk. He is very good. For sure -- offers some new perspectives, and a calm, less "strategic" [but more organic, if you will] means of problem-solving in relationships. I am going to organize his best U-Tube links on the Critical Readings thread when I can get to it in the next couple days - so folks can just click them. Thanks for sharing information! Yas No need to buy product - with all the hours of U-Tubes available! Link to post Share on other sites
Author RedHawk08 Posted December 23, 2013 Author Share Posted December 23, 2013 Very true! Just stick with the YouTube videos. The best advice I got from it was to RELAX, and stop trying so hard. I didn't have to try that hard when I met my future wife. It was natural and beautiful. A far cry from the last year or so of tension and negative feelings. GUILT is the worst thing you can create. It just increases resentment of you. My wife is already feeling guilt. That is what drobe her away, and more of it sure as hell isn't going to bring her back. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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