I got a early Xmas present...

[RedHawk08]

Yesterday I bumped into someone I'd not seen in a while.

 

They said they had seen my wife's friend at the bar the other night. Apparently, this poisonous bitch was name dropping my wife as usual and how she couldn't wait to have her over for Xmas dinner.

 

And how proud she was of her for being brave enough to leave me, because marrying me was a mistake from Day One. We were incompatible and always were.

 

This bitch has manipulated the first rough patch in our 5 year marriage. Showered my wife with support and praise and painted me to be a villain to anyone who'll listen.

 

If there is any justice in this world, she'll be under a bus by New Year.

 

In the meantime, the remainder of my wife's things will be left in boxes outside her work.

A note will read,

"FAO (wife's name)

From "Your mistake since Day One"

 

I'll be spending Xmas hoping that this isn't true.

[TheBladeRunner]

Yesterday I bumped into someone I'd not seen in a while.

 

They said they had seen my wife's friend at the bar the other night. Apparently, this poisonous bitch was name dropping my wife as usual and how she couldn't wait to have her over for Xmas dinner.

 

And how proud she was of her for being brave enough to leave me, because marrying me was a mistake from Day One. We were incompatible and always were.

 

This bitch has manipulated the first rough patch in our 5 year marriage. Showered my wife with support and praise and painted me to be a villain to anyone who'll listen.

 

If there is any justice in this world, she'll be under a bus by New Year.

 

In the meantime, the remainder of my wife's things will be left in boxes outside her work.

A note will read,

"FAO (wife's name)

From "Your mistake since Day One"

 

I'll be spending Xmas hoping that this isn't true.

 

Ya' gotta' love it when they have "supportive" friends like that. Mine had those special friends as well. Funny, all my XW's "supportive" friends have train wrecks for lives.....I guess misery REALLY does love company. Don't waste your holiday pondering this crap my friend, it's her loss for allowing her "supportive friend" to have her ear.

 

As far as the clothes and stuff.........you're doing it all wrong.........big black garbage bags will make a far deeper statement!

[RedHawk08]

Wedding dress and a lot of things associated with it make up half the boxes. There's a pencil drawing (first time I drew in 20 years) I did after she left. And a lot of silly little things I got her.

 

If she doesn't wake up when she sees those, I'm better off.

I know she never actually said that hurtful line. That's just her friend validating every little doubt she had during our rough path.

 

This bitch I recently found out did the same thing to an old girlfriend of mine, who was on medication for Bi-Polar. She would get her drunk and tell her how she could do better than me quite often.

 

I have a feeling that the unedited versions of her last photo shoot with me might go up online. BEFORE I Photoshopped 30lbs off her.

[TheBladeRunner]

When people allow their so called friends to make life decisions for them as my XW did, they are not worth keeping. I discussed the whole mess with my friends, but in the end they said the decision was mine and they would stick by me whether I stayed, or in my case now, divorced. They offered advice either way it would have went.

[RedHawk08]

Bottom line is this, my wife made a "mistake" that until very recently, she thinks her friend had kept secret.

On the contrary, she was only too quick to tell me that my wife needed "a real man". (Like hers that calls her fat and f***'s any woman he likes)

 

She ran and rewrote history did all the typical WAW stuff to avoid taking responsibility, hurting me, alienating herself, and doing what she always vowed she would never do. Be unfaithful. As she grew up seeing that in her family.

I can understand.

 

Her friend has pretty much been validating all these history rewrites and supplying some more.

 

Last week, I emailed her to tell her that I was aware of her mistake all along.

I have also told her that I am processesing the divorce that she has said she will put through for the last 6 months, but hasn't done.

 

I've had no response.

 

If I'm going down, I'm taking that other bitch with me!

[Heartbroken Eagle]

When people allow their so called friends to make life decisions for them as my XW did, they are not worth keeping. I discussed the whole mess with my friends, but in the end they said the decision was mine and they would stick by me whether I stayed, or in my case now, divorced. They offered advice either way it would have went.

 

My ex case, it was not her friends who influenced her, she did not have many, (Potential red flag?) but her mother. She was pure poison with a wreck of a life and family.

 

You can tell she is still at it now. She was never my biggest fan at the best of times. Her finest moment happened when my ex and I told her that we were having problems and she was having an affair, The mother came up with the helpful bit of advice that you might as well split up now as the trust has gone from the relationship. At least she was not laughing her head off when she passed on her wisdom...

 

Only now I realised I've had a lucky escape and a second chance...

[M30USA]

When people allow their so called friends to make life decisions for them as my XW did, they are not worth keeping. I discussed the whole mess with my friends, but in the end they said the decision was mine and they would stick by me whether I stayed, or in my case now, divorced. They offered advice either way it would have went.

 

Those are true friends. You are lucky to have them.