Disillusioned Posted December 26, 2013 Share Posted December 26, 2013 So far, all the lonely-on-Christmas threads have been by men (I was to busy on Christmas to feel lonely). What about the women who were alone this Christmas (if any)? Or were they all out partying? Anyone??? Link to post Share on other sites
CarrieT Posted December 26, 2013 Share Posted December 26, 2013 Not this year, but I have spent many, MANY Christmases alone. It happens. Link to post Share on other sites
Phoebe Posted December 26, 2013 Share Posted December 26, 2013 I was alone on Christmas. Had to work a few hours that day and a co-worker that I'd recently started seeing told me to call him when I got off work. He didn't pick up or return my call. So that was a nice kick in the teeth. Link to post Share on other sites
beyondcrushed Posted December 26, 2013 Share Posted December 26, 2013 Alone Christmas Eve, first time ever. I was sad on the days leading up to it. Day of, I was ok. Set up the tree with presents for when my kids came xmas day. Chatted with friends. Read. Crashed. Link to post Share on other sites
ScienceGal Posted December 26, 2013 Share Posted December 26, 2013 I was alone. Surprisingly, I wasn't sad. Just felt like any other day. Link to post Share on other sites
felicity1 Posted December 26, 2013 Share Posted December 26, 2013 I was alone. Surprisingly, I wasn't sad. Just felt like any other day. I broke out of my family's dysfunction bubble about 15 years ago. Since then, on most xmases I've been alone. This xmas, being alone was like another day for me too. No sadness. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Khyla Posted December 26, 2013 Share Posted December 26, 2013 I was alone, as in no partner to share it with. A f__k-bddy would have be very welcome, but no such luck. Cried a bit on Christmas Day thinking of my late husband (lost him last December ...sudden heart attack). We would have spent all day in bed "enjoying" each other. At least I had my Internet guys to make me feel special. Link to post Share on other sites
MsSmurf Posted December 27, 2013 Share Posted December 27, 2013 I was alone Christmas Eve and Christmas Day and really wasn't too bothered by it. I spent both days doing school related stuff, catching up on tv shows, and chatting with loved ones. I've been single for awhile and I could have spent the day with family, I just chose not to. In prior years when I've been alone I've been totally depressed and wondered what was wrong with me and I just didn't feel that way this year. Perhaps that was a necessary attitude shift because I got a call Christmas Day from a guy I'm interested in to tell me that he missed me, can't wait to see me, and wants to move things forward. So we shall see.... Link to post Share on other sites
PPamgirl Posted December 28, 2013 Share Posted December 28, 2013 meee i was alone at christmas and i will be at new year too Link to post Share on other sites
Imsojdm Posted December 28, 2013 Share Posted December 28, 2013 meee i was alone at christmas and i will be at new year too Out of choice? Shame to hear there was people alone for Christmas. My heart goes out to you all Link to post Share on other sites
PPamgirl Posted December 28, 2013 Share Posted December 28, 2013 (edited) at least you were not alone .... good for you yes out of choice, family problems, single,ex issues, watched tv like a granny with my dog ahhaha Edited December 28, 2013 by PPamgirl Link to post Share on other sites
Allumere Posted December 28, 2013 Share Posted December 28, 2013 I was alone Christmas Eve and most of Christmas. Did gifts exchange with Dad for a couple hours in morning. Spent rest of time watching moves and mucking stalls. No, it is not how I would choose to spend the day. I have spent most of the holidays alone over the past 5 years. Link to post Share on other sites
Imsojdm Posted December 28, 2013 Share Posted December 28, 2013 So technically you wasn't alone, you had your doggy Who's alittle fibber New Years overrated and expensive anyway 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Imsojdm Posted December 28, 2013 Share Posted December 28, 2013 I was alone Christmas Eve and most of Christmas. Did gifts exchange with Dad for a couple hours in morning. Spent rest of time watching moves and mucking stalls. No, it is not how I would choose to spend the day. I have spent most of the holidays alone over the past 5 years. Not thought it's about time to break the trend? Or aren't you fussed? Link to post Share on other sites
PPamgirl Posted December 28, 2013 Share Posted December 28, 2013 So technically you wasn't alone, you had your doggy Who's alittle fibber New Years overrated and expensive anyway what do u mean by fibber ? sorry i am a foreign:( Link to post Share on other sites
Imsojdm Posted December 28, 2013 Share Posted December 28, 2013 what do u mean by fibber ? sorry i am a foreign:( Sorry just another word for telling a little white lie:p Curious where you from now? If you don't mind me asking Link to post Share on other sites
PPamgirl Posted December 28, 2013 Share Posted December 28, 2013 Sorry just another word for telling a little white lie:p Curious where you from now? If you don't mind me asking ohh ok i go it, i am from earth ahah just like you :p 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Imsojdm Posted December 28, 2013 Share Posted December 28, 2013 ohh ok i go it, i am from earth ahah just like you :p Hahahahaha Link to post Share on other sites
PinkInTheLimo Posted December 29, 2013 Share Posted December 29, 2013 (edited) I was on my own, and it was not for the first time. As a matter of fact, very exceptionally I was invited by a co-worker for Christmas Eve. But decided not to go because she can be rather dramatic and I don't want to drink any alcohol right now and was expecting that this would already cause a discussion. I prepared some nice food, ate a Christmas cake all by myself (one half on Christmas Eve and the other half on Christmas Day) and watched a romantic movie on TV. It was a good Christmas. I hope to have company in the future, but only good company will do. Edited December 29, 2013 by PinkInTheLimo 1 Link to post Share on other sites
felicity1 Posted December 29, 2013 Share Posted December 29, 2013 meee i was alone at christmas and i will be at new year too I will be alone on new years too. Whatever! Link to post Share on other sites
felicity1 Posted December 29, 2013 Share Posted December 29, 2013 So technically you wasn't alone, you had your doggy Who's alittle fibber New Years overrated and expensive anyway Technically I was not alone either, was with my kittycat stinkybum! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
PPamgirl Posted December 29, 2013 Share Posted December 29, 2013 This is where I'll be for new years!! btw.. fibber means liar haahahah Link to post Share on other sites
Desert70 Posted December 30, 2013 Share Posted December 30, 2013 If we're talking about being without a partner, yes I was alone on Christmas. Sadly, this is my 4th Christmas without a partner. As far as being alone/lonely, I was not because I am the mother of three wonderful princesses who are my world and fill my life with love and happiness. Good luck to everybody, and happy holidays. My wish for the upcoming year is that all of us who don't have a partner this year find one to spend the rest of our holidays with them. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
emva07 Posted December 30, 2013 Share Posted December 30, 2013 I spent it with my family yet sad because this was my first Christmas without my bf....became an ex earlier this year. New Years eve will be spent with friends but I already know I am bound to get sad at some point that night. Can't wait for the new year to be here already to start anew and no more holidays to get sad around. Luckily my bday is on valentines day so I always feel loved. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Disillusioned Posted December 30, 2013 Author Share Posted December 30, 2013 Awwwww, cheer up! On Christmas morning I wired some new lights into my living room ceiling so the place won't look all dark and depressing. All the better for hosting singles' potlucks next year. ;-) Link to post Share on other sites
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