Your Attraction

[BlackSinatra]

Let me share a piece of information that will help you attract people of the other sex.

 

Are you ready!? Here it is!!

 

Men like Women and Women like Men.

 

There you have it! The secret is out the box. Go out there and grab yourself someone sexy!

 

“Can you like… Explain?”

 

Oh, okay I suppose. Take for example you see someone extremely attractive walking your way. Whether a beautiful slim, yet curvy woman in high heels or a tall, muscular man in a tight fitting shirt, what happens? Either you will become very infatuated or rather jealous. Maybe you become very lustful because you dream of being in the same bed with them or angry because a person of this “league” is just unattainable to you. Regardless, both ask the same question: What can I do to get them to like me?

 

Wrong question

 

In a matter of fact, the only question that matters is: Do they find you attractive as well? Let us shed off all of our beautiful love stories from our minds and look at reality. If someone doesn’t even pass the looks threshold, you’re not even going think about intimacy around them. This does not mean that they have to be super model status, but they have to meet a certain “beauty quota”. After they meet that, then that’s where the personality tests occur.

“But it shouldn’t it be personality that is the most important?”

 

Yes… But you got to get them on a date with you in the first place to find out that amazing personality of yours. They need to be attracted to your appearance in the first place.

 

So now we’ve learned that people are shallow. I do not say that in a condescending way, it is absolutely necessary to be somewhat shallow. Therefore, to bypass social conditioning, let me use a less offensive phrase to substitute the word “shallow.” How about “having standards”? Yes, people “have standards.” The question is: where do you stand in the mist

of others’ “standards”?

 

I invite you to self-assess yourself.

 

 

• Are you as attractive as you want to be?
  
• Do you groom yourself on a daily basis?
  
• Do you walk with self-confidence? A straight back?
  
• Do you look people in the eye when you speak?
  
• Do you wear nice clothes? Do you wash them? Do they fit you?
  
• Do you get physical activity? Are you content looking at your body in the mirror?
  
• Are you comfortable with your dating life as of now?
  
• Do you believe you can attract someone on any given day?
  

I recommend regular visits to the gym for everyone in general as a starter for anything, but if you’re the type that wants plastic surgery or implants, know that it comes at a price (other than the money to pay for it). Know who a better physical appearance is going to attract but remember, even the nicest of guys will want a woman with a round behind. Know that staying away from boys who only want you for your body may, in the process, also drive away men who want something more, for their “standards” will still want a woman they are sexually attracted to. Double-edged sword, right? Guys, your woman will tell you she likes you just the way you are to protect your ego, but trust me, she will very much appreciate it if you lost some of that belly or had some muscle on those spaghetti sticks you call arms.

 

But of course personality also matters as well. If you are a softie boy who wants to give your woman anything she asks for at the snap of her fingers, she is going to be embarrassed by you and will not value you as a man. She will enjoy the compassion, but she will not be proud of you because you don’t resemble masculinity; she feels that you are not strong enough to be a protector. I’ve been there and I’ve done that. I’ve talked to girls who have dated “nice” guys… their votes are unanimous. Same thing for you girlies! It’s great that more and more women are able to aid society on the same level as men, but don’t rob your man of his pride to BE the man. Men’s weak spot is their ego, hurt the ego and you hurt the man. Nothing kills male pride faster than a woman who, not only can, but actively TRIES to out-man-handle him. And you wonder why divorce rates are rising in the western world.

 

Boys, become Men; Girls, become Women. Become one externally and internally. Next time you see someone you want, just remember, Men like Women and Women like Men.

 

More on this later,

 

Peace.

[regine_phalange]

I'm a woman trapped in an adolescent's body.

 

I'm not a traditional beauty. My hips are too round, my breast is too small, my hair wild and curly, my lips a tad small.

I don't care what "womanity" is. I have feminine and masculine traits. Just like the man I fall in love with.

 

I don't wear a lot of sticky makeup. I like having my lips kissed and my cheek stroked.

I know how to walk on heels, but they tire my feet and I just want to walk around all night. I wear boots instead.

I love skirts. I love expensive fabrics. Usually have them tailored in order to fit me perfectly. My wardrobe is not full of clothes, but the ones I have are all an investment. I take good care of them and they last for years. They always smell nice.

 

At times, I have a bigger percent of fat on my body. It's because I have fun with friends and enjoy the material things. During times of hard work, I lose it all. I exercise often for my back, in order to keep it straight. I love yoga.

 

I don't always feel confident. I don't know why, and I don't care.

I always look people in the eye, as I want them to look into mine.

 

I don't have any dating life right now and I don't mind.

I can't attract whoever I think is attractive.. But the ones I really wanted to be mine, I always had them.

 

I love thin guys of medium height, with not too much muscle. I love a deep gaze and a boyish warm smile, that's all that it takes for me to be attracted instantly.

 

I love men trapped in an adolescent's body.

[runningfar]

I love when posts try to sound like they are high minded and know what they are talking about when they are rather silly.