Can you steal someone's boyfriend if you're more attractive then them?

[carelessdrifter]

She may be one of the nicest and kindest people, looks aren't everything, personality is more important. Someone can be stunning or very handsome and have a shi.tty personality which takes away from their looks.

If i'm correct, looks come first then you get to know the person.

 

You are judging her through your own rose coloured glasses and also assuming that is unhappy because he spends time with his friends. How do you know he is spending MORE time with friends than with her?

 

I don't actually know that but it seems that way, he only just changed his facebook photo to the two of them which i literally burst out laughing at like who is she?? she can't be the same girl surely, but it must have been or else he wouldn't have made it his profile picture.

 

Haven't read the rest of your thread but I'm assuming you're gonna try to 'steal' him from her because you think she's ugly and you're hotter than her, so therefore he should be yours? If I am wrong here, I apologize.

 

I never said once that she was ugly, i just meant i'm more attractive than her, that's all, he is shallow because he tried to ask someone out in summer 2012, and described her as the 'most beautiful person ever' or something, but her family were there so he couldn't ask her out for some reason, then a few months later he left that comment to me on tumblr which is why i KNEW it must have been him because he used that word before on 'twitter', then a few months after that he's in a relationship with her, so if anything she's his third option.

[sweet_pea]

.....are you in high school?

[carelessdrifter]

He doesn't know me but he is attracted to me, and he doesn't give out complements easily so i doubt he'd forget someone he described as 'beautiful'

[missannoyed]

Heres my 2 cents worth. He chose buck teeth girl over you.

 

Why? Because she makes him feel good about himself.

 

I like to think I'm pretty damn attractive.. but it doesn't matter... He is going to go with whoever makes him "feel" better about himself

Whoever strokes his ego the most.

 

It doesn't matter if buck teeth girl is fugly.

 

he clearly went with her because she makes him feel good about himself and if he were with someone more attractive - it wouldn't be a stroke to his ego. Some guys hate having a more attractive partner. It makes them feel insecure.

 

If you're serious about this loser, you need to act like you don't give a ****

Just Be fun. Treat him like you've friend zoned him. Call him "buddy" it gets them every time.

[carelessdrifter]

.....are you in high school?

 

I'm in year 11, is that the 10th grade in America? they're both in sixth form.

[MissBee]

He doesn't know me but he is attracted to me, and he doesn't give out complements easily so i doubt he'd forget someone he described as 'beautiful'

 

Hon,

 

Just because a man thinks you're pretty doesn't mean he wants to date you neither does it mean he will leave his gf for you. That's a fact. He may not have "forgotten" you but I doubt he is up at nights tossing and turning thinking about you. You were not the first neither will you be the last girl he has told she is beautiful, please don't get hung up on that.

 

He has NOT reached out to you and hasn't made any effort to date you. Until he does, don't worry about him.

[carelessdrifter]

He hasn't reached out to me because i wasn't online for almost a year, i come back to twitter and he's in a relationship, he did try to get me to videochat but i was so closed off because of the break up with my ex.

[carelessdrifter]

If i ever do want to skype with him, i'd have to get through his friend (which was probably the other person that brought us together in the first place as well as my ex) then he'd talk about me with him, and then he'd remember my name and then think... oh... i only remember positive things about her but her ex was my worst enemy so why is that? then we skype, then bam! he'll be like oh that's why.

[waterwoman]

My dd is in yr 10. If she was behaving like this I'd tell her to stop obsessing about mr fantastic and miss toothy and concentrate on her GCSEs!

[ThatsJustHowIRoll]

Nevermind. Wasn't helpful

[Iguanna]

This just confirms my thought that women's worst enemy are other women.

[Ringa78]

This really is shallow. Just because you see buck teeth doesnt maybe he does. Maybe she has a great butt and that's what he likes? You never know. Just sounds silly and petty of you. Sounds like you're very insecure. If you're so 'wondering' and shocked about it, why don't you find a man who has no involvement with anyone else? might be easier.

 

'Just because a man thinks you're pretty doesn't mean he wants to date you neither does it mean he will leave his gf for you.'

 

and yes this. The world is filled with pretty women.

[Amelia81]

Year 11 is 15-16 years old?

 

I used to make a fool of myself around boys at that age and it just makes me cringe when I think about it now. It's all a learning curve though for future relationships, I just wished I had been more focussed on ME at that age rather than boys then I might not have some of the insecurities I do now.

[Lady2163]

Whew! What a difference age makes.

 

Men often find buck teeth and front teeth that have a gap sexy. Freud would probably say it is something to do with oral fixation...and oral sex fantasies.

 

I don't find buck teeth attractive in men.

 

Have you ever heard the phrase, more cushion for the pushing'?

 

Women who may not be stick figure skinny usually have bigger breasts. Men seem to like those as well. I lost 40 pounds once and boyfriend was disappointed that I lost weight and size in the chest.

 

He's been with her a year. That's quite a while in teen world.. My guess is u less he is ready to break up with her, no you probably can't steal him, even if you are better looking. Now, if youre better looking, extremely wealthy and have the perfect personality, you might have a chance. I'm sure a new car would get his attention.

[Speakingofwhich]

Friend has a severe overbite. Her bf told her if she ever had it fixed he'd lose interest (as in break up) in her.

[pickflicker]

Ok i don't need judgement, i was just wondering, since guys are 'visual' and i have proof that he liked me before he started dating her, but now he's been with her for almost a year... and she's not exactly an ogre, but she has these huge buck teeth and i saw her photo she looked reasonably attractive but little did i know this was taken almost a 'year' ago, so she must have put on weight quite recently... which i can't imagine he's too pleased about since, he seems to spend more time with his friends then with her, so any advice?

 

He's with her, not with you. You're not in their relationship, so you can't understand the dynamic. As another poster said, you're crap out of luck.

 

Work on being beautiful on the inside.

[darkmoon]

she might be amazing in bed, he likes her he is with her, that is clear, register for being a side-piece, he shows no signs of dumping her, move on

[Oldspiceywolf]

You can probably get him, at least for sex or chatting online. I don't think it will end in a positive way but nows the time to learn. The decisions you make today will affect your relationships in the future.

[carelessdrifter]

This just confirms my thought that women's worst enemy are other women.

 

I use to be all about the sisterhood till they all backstabbed me and called me a bunch of names that wasn't even true, but they just assume it is, and it's mainly the nerdy girls that did because i'm blonde and pretty they assume i'm stupid and then when i prove them right, they act like they gave me a chance to begin with, besides if i was a guy no one would be saying you shouldn't do that to another male, why is it exclusively always females that have to stick together??